Gay people seek "fake marriage" for love, which is actually a helpless move. Although scientific research has proved that homosexuality is not morbid, although many homosexuals have proved that they are normal and can contribute to society. Although the Netherlands, Belgium, Finland, Germany, France, the United Kingdom, Canada, South Africa, and some states in the United States have legalized same-sex marriage, in China's mainstream society, they still treat homosexuals with a different perspective, and some even call them "patients". Li Yinhe, a sociologist, submitted the proposal for same-sex marriage to the National People's Congress and the National People's Congress three times, and the result was futile.
Rousseau, the French thinker, once said: "Marriage is the sweetest combination of human relations, and is also a sacred and inviolable contract." The functions of marriage mainly include eight functions: economic function, physiological function, psychological function, emotional function, bond function, cooperation function, reproduction function and restraint function. Marriage is the foundation of the family and the family is the cell of the society. To "rule the country and balance the world", we must first "keep the family together". To "keep the family together", we must maintain marriage. That is why all countries in the world attach great importance to marriage law.
However, homosexuals have to choose heterosexual marriage either because of the influence of social culture, or for the purpose of covering up homosexual tendencies, or to cope with aging and loneliness. This kind of marriage is not based on love and cannot play its due role in normal marriage, which often brings more negative effects, such as the lack of cooperation function caused by the conflict between the right to know in marriage and the right to privacy, The weakening of the binding function caused by the failure to fulfill the obligation of loyalty, and the loss of the physiological function caused by the violation of the sexual rights in marriage, all lead to the end of this "true marriage" in the form of tragedy.
The same-sex marriage has changed from the topic that people despised in the past to the topic that people can't get around; They have been regarded as ordinary people from their morbid state, which in itself is the progress of society. With the increasing diversity of social life and the gradual improvement of human democratic consciousness, it is believed that more and more people will understand, tolerate and recognize same-sex marriage. In current China, it is impossible to legalize and open same-sex marriage immediately. But we believe that, like the discrimination that once happened to left-handed people, the day of concept change will surely come. So, to change the concept of homosexuals and change the view of same-sex marriage, let's start with us.