Many quarrels seem angry on the surface, but behind them lies deep love. If you don't understand, you can't read the true meaning of love. Love requires understanding, tolerance, and mutual respect. Why is it necessary to understand? "Because love often has many misunderstandings, a little carelessness can make love disappear.". Why do we need tolerance? Because love can reveal the strengths and weaknesses of both parties, if you do not understand empathy, you will be unhappy because of disputes. Why do we need mutual respect? Because in this way, the original trust between you can be preserved. How to save the scene of lovers' quarrel in love?
First, learn to stop yourself
When you quarrel, the reason why you quarrel is because you have been arguing with each other. Think about it. If the other person were alone, how could they argue? Why do you always argue so much? It's because you don't know how to tolerate others. "You want to compete with each other in everything, and you never think about your own shortcomings in anything.". When you hold this mindset and refuse to let each other down, you will never understand how to learn to love someone. The key is to learn to stop yourself. When you stop and begin to tolerate the other person, the other person can calm down as quickly as possible. And many conversations, if not calm, what else can they talk about?
Secondly, learn to embrace each other in a timely manner
You know, sometimes a thousand words can't be worth a hug. The reason for this is because gentleness is the most powerful power. When you hug someone, they can feel your temperature, feel your warmth, and even feel your sense of security. Sometimes a deep hug can stop many endless arguments. Many robber hugs can also reduce many unnecessary arguments. Because hugging is enough to show that you are more important than anything else. Since you want to save the other party, you need to find ways to make them feel your sincerity and sincerity, because these are priceless treasures.
Once again, learn how to love someone
When we are young, we don't know how to love someone. We always think that capricious, deceitful, and impetuous coping is the best way to treat each other. But at the end of the day, we realized that to learn to love someone, the first step is to cultivate ourselves to have love. When a person is a person full of love, he will attract a lot of power, which is enough to make him more optimistic and confident. At the same time, it will also make him look at some things and problems with a more open-minded attitude. And made him understand that love is always needed, just because many people get used to each other and forget to give.
Finally, learn to laugh at yourself
Self mockery requires you to ease the situation when you cannot overcome it. This self mockery is used to make fun of oneself and reduce the other party's dissatisfaction with oneself. Let the other party accept your changes and state in a relaxed and joyful environment. When the other party understands that being with you is very humorous and joyful, the other party will feel your aura. In a lovers' quarrel, the one who stands out first to take on the responsibility will definitely inspire awe, because he is thinking about taking care of everyone and giving up the small family.