Office romance has always been regarded as a feeling that people despise. But it happens from time to time. Once an office romance occurs, it is always easy to cover it up. Because the more you want to hide things, the more you can't hide them. Over time, the family will inevitably be affected. In anger, many wives and their husbands were killed and asked for divorce. In this case, how to save the family?
First of all, you must apologize to your spouse
Because your love has affected your marriage. Originally you thought it was just for fun, but you didn't expect it to be big. If you want to keep your family at this time, you should learn to bow to your spouse and apologize to the other party, so that you can clearly understand why this happened. It's your fault that such things happen. You hope the other party will give you a chance to reform. Even write a guarantee to the other party.
Second, you can tell the other party to change jobs
If you feel that your spouse has lost confidence in you, this time you tell the other party that you are willing to change jobs and cut off all contact opportunities with the other party. You can do anything as long as you can get the forgiveness of your spouse. You can hit yourself and ask the other party how to reduce their pain. You tell the other person that you have always remembered the other person's kindness in your heart, but you were the emotional slave at that time. On the one hand, you are impulsive, and on the other hand, you have a great relationship with the other party.
Again, we should start to be more good to our spouse
Perhaps it was only when your marriage went wrong that you realized how bad your previous indulgence was. You didn't expect to hurt your family deeply. At this time, you can only make the other party feel your sincerity by doubling your kindness. Maybe the other party is annoyed when they see you, but the reason why the other party is angry shows that the other party still cares about you. Just think, if the other party is really indifferent, then you don't have any status in the other party's heart. It's just that you need to understand that people's hearts are often cold. If you are always capricious to the other party, then don't blame the other party for being cruel to you.
Finally, learn to create some warmth and romance for each other
Perhaps you have neglected each other for a long time since you began to have an office romance. Unconsciously, you and the other party have not talked for a long time. Perhaps because of the outbreak of the problem, the other party recalled many things in the past, and the other party began to feel your disloyalty and your hypocrisy. At this time, you should know how to start giving romance to each other. Start to create a world for two. We should know how to put in and out freely when it comes to feelings. Emotion itself is a game. When you have played enough, your heart should come back in time. And family is the only battlefield you feel at ease.
It is difficult to like a person in one's life. It is precisely because of this that a lot of separation has occurred. Feelings outside marriage are like grass on the wall. It seems dense, but actually it is downright. The reason is that there is no deep foundation. And family is often an important place to nourish one's soul. Although there are quarrels, there are also sweetness. After some things, you will find that having a stable family is the greatest wealth in life. Therefore, we should understand and cherish!