Post Date December, 02 2023
How to save the broken marriage
Marriage has happiness and sweetness as well as all kinds of crises. No matter what happens, it must be an almost irreconcilable contradiction between two people from lovers to marriage and finally to fragmentation. First of all, love and marriage cannot be confused. The difficulty of marriage is that too many people and things are involved, much more than love. There are many reasons for the crisis of marriage. How to save a broken marriage?
Don't be careless and suspicious. If you have nothing to do, ask for trouble.
Don't think you have a clear understanding of your lover's thoughts and feelings. Nine times out of ten, you will make mistakes because of this wrong idea and do something you regret. In fact, it is quite common for men and women to make such mistakes, especially women, in marriage. There was no problem at all, but TA just didn't believe it. He thought that the other party had done something bad and had to argue with the other party. The other party would only think you were making trouble for nothing, and the conflict would naturally intensify. Your suspicions will only push TA further and further. Yi Siqing thinks that without the most basic trust, marriage will break down, and emotional crisis will easily occur. How to resolve the emotional crisis of marriage? In the marriage crisis, it often happens that the suspicion made out of nothing makes both people angry and difficult to communicate, and finally the failure to solve the problem is the rupture of the relationship. The most important thing between husband and wife is trust. Without trust, marriage cannot continue.
Don't complain all the time.
"It's all your fault!", "If it weren't for you, could things be like this!" Such complaints are not a sentence or two. If two people get along with each other, they will be very unhappy. They won't think what makes things so bad, but will only complain about each other and say "everything is your fault". The love counselor believes that neither of them will give in, and the marriage problem is becoming more and more serious. It will not be a matter of time before he/she wants to change his/her mind.
If there is anything unsatisfying or unsatisfying, don't point the problem at the other party at the beginning.
First think about your own problems and find out the reasons from yourself. To be serious, how can you be sure that it is the other party's fault? What courage makes you question the other party so forcefully and accuse the other party angrily. It really makes him/her sad and heartless. If he/she wants to save his/her feelings, it will be difficult to save his/her marriage.
Don't be cold and violent.
It is not a good way to deal with emotional problems without saying anything. Don't pretend to be deep at this critical time! For TA, your silence is like a fist on cotton, which has no effect. So even if he/she tries hard to solve your emotional problems, but you don't cooperate, he/she can do nothing! Marriage is a matter of two people, not just one party's efforts. It is better for emotional stability to communicate with each other to solve problems in marriage.
