As the saying goes, 'Every family has its own difficult lesson to remember.' In a family, there are always things that happen, and in all likelihood, life is not going well. If a family does not have some arguments, it may seem unreal. However, arguments must be moderate, and they must not evolve from arguments to domestic violence. If things go on like this, it can lead to more and more discord in the family, or even lead to the end of the marriage. Therefore, as both parties of the marriage, When encountering some family chores or extramarital affairs, it is necessary to face them rationally, handle them calmly, and tolerate each other with a tolerant heart to save the marriage.
But how can tolerance be considered? When a marriage is on the brink of dissolution, there are various cracks, breaks, and the relationship that has been around for many years cannot be abandoned, and how to save it? So what should we do? Perhaps it's best to tolerate each other's right and wrong with tolerance, but how can we save our marriage with tolerance?
First: Don't argue about trivial matters.
The most common thing at home is trivialities, so in a marriage, two people should not see the word 'trivialities'. Many times, it is just trivial things that make couples unable to get along with each other, and even lead to divorce. It may be a bit unbelievable and heartbreaking to say, but many couples who were originally in the same family but later went their separate ways cannot answer the reason for divorce, Or it could be some small things as small as sesame seeds, but in the end, they got divorced. As two people in a marriage, don't argue over a small matter and turn red in the face. They are all family members. If one person says less, everything will be gone.
Secondly, endure as long as you can.
Sometimes it's really frustrating to think about something, such as having an affair or making a big mistake that may feel unforgivable. Once you encounter this kind of thing, many people think about it and it's impossible to live through these days. Divorce is okay, but when you think about it again, a marriage, two families, you have both parents, or you have your own children. Divorce is so simple, but what about them, As long as the other party sincerely changes their behavior, give them another chance and forgive them with tolerance.
Thirdly, be tolerant of the elderly.
Marriage is when two young strangers form a new home, but it's not about the two of you and each other's parents. There is a saying that goes, 'Old trees have many roots, and old people have many old sayings.' Some elderly people may be quite verbose, after all, as they get older and have a generation gap with young people. They may not pay attention to what you do, but if they don't like it, they will want to give opinions. Many people get into trouble with their husband and wife just because of a few angry words from the elderly. Therefore, for the elderly, as long as they don't say too much and can follow their advice, they should try to follow them as much as possible, If it's really unacceptable, then explain and explain. If it's not possible, use words to make sense. If it doesn't make sense, just ignore it. Don't argue, it will make the old person uncomfortable and make your partner feel that you are not filial enough to him. However, both parties should have their own opinions, and not just listen to the old person's words, blame the other party. It should be civilized and the truth should be distinguished between right and wrong.
There are so many topics about the need for tolerance in rescuing marriage, but in order to manage marriage in an orderly manner, it is necessary to have more tolerance, mutual understanding and tolerance, which is a compulsory course for both parties in a marriage.