Post Date April, 15 2023
How to save a conflicting girlfriend
There are ups and downs in the moon, joys and sorrows in people, and the relationship between two people cannot always be sweet and sweet. Small arguments can also enhance the relationship between two people. However, if there is a big argument, it is unlikely that you want to be safe and sound together. At this time, how to retrieve the girlfriend who is causing trouble has become the most worrying problem for men.
Identify the cause of the conflict.
There is a reason for everything. Since there is a conflict, it is important to understand why. For a man with rectum, a woman's heart is like a needle in the ocean, as if she cannot figure out what her girlfriend is thinking. Taking breakup as an example, when you had a conflict, she said she wanted to break up with you. You saved her, but she asked you to get away, and then you really didn't want to save it. Can she not be angry? Actually, she just wants you to persistently keep her. There is only one reason why conflicts occur, which is your fault, so you need to know how to reflect on yourself and find faults in yourself.
Actively bow down to her for peace.
Of course, it is not ruled out that you have encountered a unreasonable but unfortunately you love her to the point of not being able to do so. In order to save her, you must follow an iron law: your fault is your fault, her fault is still your fault. A good man is one who knows his mistakes and corrects them. Smart men do not argue or explain their mistakes to their girlfriends, but bravely admit their mistakes and receive punishment. Many times, what women care about is not whether your behavior is enough to impress people. As long as your attitude is sincere enough, she will forgive you in her heart!
Take action to resolve conflicts.
After finding the cause of the conflict, if you choose to avoid it and are unwilling to face it, then all of this is empty talk, and saving your girlfriend will ultimately become a bubble. Action is not as important as heart palpitations. Action is the most important thing in the entire process of redemption. From now on, slowly understand your girlfriend's most genuine inner thoughts; From now on, gradually give your girlfriend more care and care; Starting from now on, look for reasons more from yourself, think more from your girlfriend's perspective, and so on. In the end, you will find that in her heart, you have become the person who loves her the most. If she does not accept you, it is actually her ignorance.
After redemption, compensation must be made.
Some people think that once saved, everything will be fine, but perhaps you never thought that after a cold is cured, you will still catch a cold, and after a high fever subsides, you will still have a high fever. After the conflict is resolved, there will be new conflicts. The process of two people constantly adapting is the process of constantly generating conflicts and then continuously resolving them. Small arguments can indeed witness the rise of emotions, but if arguments are too frequent, it can only make people upset, and if there are too many contradictions, it can only make people doubt whether the relationship between two people is really suitable. So we still need to try our best to avoid conflicts. Therefore, after recovering success, you still need to make up for your girlfriend. Don't continue to make the mistakes you always made before, and start slowly doing things you didn't do before. The love you didn't give her before should be doubled now.
It's actually good to have conflicts, which helps to identify problems between you. However, if you easily give up this love because of conflicts, it can only be said that you both don't know how to cherish it. On the contrary, when these contradictions are easily resolved, you will find that the relationship between you becomes stronger and stronger.
