Post Date April, 15 2023
It is very normal for couples to quarrel. When two people live together, there is no reason to bump into each other. But when the quarrel is over, don't try to be happy and say something that hurts others. It is not worthwhile to hurt their marriage. You should know that a lot of divorced people break up because of some small quarrel. Now let's go with the small editor to see what taboos are in the couple's quarrel?
1. Throw things about
It's really not a good thing to throw things. Everything in the family is bought with money. The quarrel between husband and wife will always pass, but the things will be gone once they are thrown. If we have to spend money to buy things after reconciliation, the most important thing is that throwing things will aggravate the other party's emotions, and even contribute to the occurrence of domestic violence.
2. Sneer
This is actually a kind of cold domestic violence. What is the quarrel between husband and wife? Of course, two people are together, and one of the husband and wife actually does their own thing. That means that you are uninteresting and refuse to communicate with each other verbally and emotionally. This is the sign of the cold war. The cold war between husband and wife is not good.
3. Argue in front of outsiders
As the saying goes, "Don't show your dirty linen", it is unavoidable for couples to bump into each other in life, but be careful not to quarrel in public. Some problems are quarrelled in front of others, which can not solve the problem, but fuel the fire. Because in front of everyone, both sides want face and refuse to show weakness, and the final situation is difficult to clean up. If we can discuss or even argue privately, maybe some problems can be solved.
So how should couples reconcile their quarrels?
1. When angry, pay attention to control your emotions
As the saying goes, it is normal to quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed. It is abnormal for two people not to contradict and quarrel, but it is the most important to make up in time after the quarrel. It is suggested to calm down and think about it. In order to avoid emotional intensification during the cold war, we should speak less, and it is better not to speak, so as not to hurt others. During this period, both of them are very sensitive, and it is easy to make trouble if they speak ill of each other.
2. Learn to please others
In fact, it's no big deal to admit the mistake and bow down. If you can't say it, you can use your body to express it. As the saying goes, when a couple quarrels with each other at the end of the bed, then after going to bed, gently hug each other and say sweet words, some intimate words, or tease or tell jokes until you make the other laugh. It's the principle that one laugh and one hundred worries disappear naturally.
3. Spend more time with your wife
Men often focus on their careers, so it often happens that they travel for entertainment every day. However, in any case, your wife is not a free nanny you invited, and it is not enough to just leave it at home. So try to spend more time with your wife. She may not need you to help her mop the table and wash dishes, as long as she sees you around, she will be very happy. Wives' wishes are usually easy to meet. What they fear most is that you are not around. As long as you spend more time with your wife, managing a good marriage is not a big problem.
4. Listen to the opinions and suggestions of others
Sometimes quarrels are inevitable, so we should minimize the impact of quarrels. After the quarrel, if both sides still think they are reasonable, it will be a cold war. At this time, you should ask the opinions of some past people, and let others analyze who is right and who is wrong. If it is your fault, you should quickly admit it
Conclusion: I believe that you have a certain understanding of this article through the above narration. Yes, quarrels between husband and wife are very common, but we should grasp the limit of everything and can't go beyond that bottom line! At the same time, after the quarrel, we should pay attention to the timely reconciliation and not let the conflict continue to escalate. Good things need to be shared together. I hope friends can forward them to each other!
