Post Date December, 02 2023
When we were together, we didn't cherish it well. With the love we had, we recklessly made trouble, and finally broke the heart of our lover. When all tolerance is squandered, after a moment of silence or a roar, you finally lose the man who loves you the most. You thought he would come to coax you, but he didn't hold you in his hands as he used to. It turned out that you hurt him so deeply that his hands were rotten to the point where he could no longer give you a place. There is no medicine for regret in the world, but some people have been struggling to find a way to cure regret, and there are also examples of successfully saving their boyfriend's heart to heal his wounds. So how can we recover the damage caused to him so much in order to achieve such results?
Actively admit mistakes and avoid avoiding problems.
Couples always love and kill each other because they care too much, which makes it more prone to problems. I give you a lot of warmth, but you don't give me the same warmth in return. Therefore, my heart is used to getting crazy, thinking that you don't love me enough, and then comes various problems such as conflicts, disputes, misunderstandings, etc. When people are very angry, they often lose their sanity, so the consequences of impulsiveness are always regrettable, because at that time, they are overwhelmed and the decisions they make are not what they think. Perhaps he has always been a gentle person, but on that day, for the first time, he was cruel to you. Perhaps he was never the kind of silent person, but on that day, he unexpectedly did not defend himself... So he was really hurt! Since you want to save him, why don't you admit your mistake? You always want to avoid these injuries, not touch his wounds, but dare not face those wounds. Why does he give you the right to continue hurting him? So we still need to come back to this mistake. If you make a mistake, you will make a mistake. Don't keep saying sorry but unwilling to correct your previous mistake, because no one who has been injured will be willing to be stabbed again in the same situation.
Sincere attitude, strive to move him.
Some people say that attitude determines everything, which may seem too absolute, but there is a reason to say it. Indeed, a sincere attitude is the most basic requirement no matter where you are doing anything. Why can a loser man catch up with Bai Fumei? Why can flowers be planted on cow dung? This is not by chance, but because although they are mediocre, their attitude is sincere. It is precisely because they persistently demonstrate their determination that the love in their hearts is moved by their persistence. Some people say that even if you give too much, it will only move you in the end. But if you don't give, how can you have the opportunity to regain your love? Especially for a man who has been severely hurt by you, if you don't work hard to move his heart, you will definitely not be able to retrieve love.
After doing so much, it can be considered "benevolent and righteous", but you should never feel that there will be rewards for your efforts. Don't pester him with an answer. I hope you can respect your boyfriend and give him some time to consider whether he should stay or leave. At the same time, don't forget to always use a sincere heart to recover. Even if he doesn't have much enthusiasm for your "healing", as long as he doesn't refuse, don't be stingy with your kindness, because if you don't give, there will definitely be no return.
