When you love someone, you always want to hold them in your hands. But perhaps your rhythm with the other person is not in sync, you may not know how to love them, they may not appreciate how you are now, or you may have broken their hearts. How can you recover when the other party loses contact with you in frustration?
1、 Analyze the cause of disconnection
There are generally two reasons why the other party disconnects from you: firstly, they already have a better choice and do not want to have further interactions with you. And the other party is very certain that they have found their ideal love. So, the other party doesn't want to have any further contact with you. Secondly, the other party doesn't like you at all and doesn't appreciate your attitude towards things. Or perhaps one aspect of you makes the other person feel unacceptable. So let's just leave and not communicate with each other. Leave your problem to yourself to solve.
2、 Find a way to contact the other party
If you can still find a way to see the other person after they disconnect from you, it is enough to show your sincerity. Even if you cannot save the other party, one day when they recall you, they will definitely admire your courage and true feelings. So, no matter what, find a way to meet the other person and let them know that you really love them, care about them, and even willing to give everything for them. So, make the other party feel that you care about them very much.
3、 Persist in sending messages to him/her
If you call and he/she doesn't answer, then find a way to text him/her to let him/her know that you really still miss him/her. Especially on important holidays, such as Valentine's Day or his/her birthday, the other party usually hopes that someone can care about them. If you can send your blessing message at this time, the other party will definitely be very happy to see it. If the other person's life is not happy, they will start to miss your kindness. In this way, you have a chance to redeem yourself.
4、 Find a way to gain recognition from his/her family and friends
Find a way to gain recognition from his/her relatives and friends, and when these people recognize you, they will add an impression score. Their unintentional words will trigger each other's thinking. Because they care about their relatives and friends, they will care about their words. The most important thing in comparing love is to strive for character and trust. If everyone already has a preconceived view of you, it is easy to reconcile things between you and the other party. Perhaps the other party is just angry with you and ignoring you. With these family and friend groups, they provide you with stable support. What Chinese people do is often based on human relationships. When you have a human touch and recognition from everyone, it will be easy to retrieve your love.
It is difficult to recover the disconnection, but it does not mean it is impossible. Work hard and let nature take its course. Who knows if he or she is waiting for you to find him or her? How many loves in the world are separated and pursued. So, to stick to what you like, you must learn to be brave and patient, believing that time will give you the best love back!