If the man you love is fighting with another MM behind your back and doesn't propose to break up with you, then he has to cover up and lie again. But no matter how perfect he is, there will be clues. Don't be covetous. With a little wisdom, you can find out whether he is really cheating on you
Derailment phenomenon 1: sudden increase in expenses
After the infidelity, it is necessary to eat candlelight dinner, send roses and drink coffee to please Iraqis, which can reflect a man's gentlemanly demeanor and romance. What is romance? It is to waste the number on the credit card slowly with a girl to make it less changeable. This is a compulsory course for men in the love field. It's a small idea. This little expense can't be borne. How can a girl be willing to be romantic with you? How can someone play a love game with a married husband that won't have an end or fame? Meet girls who have high material requirements, such as houses and sports cars.
In order to keep this period of romance, the man had to desperately save private money. In the past, even if the money generously given to his wife would still be given to her, how much would he be unwilling to pay? Only he knows. If a man has no extra income, he will usually use all kinds of excuses not to give his salary to his wife in full; If there is extra income, men will not be as foolish as before - they will leave all the money to their wives. Some men even quit smoking and drinking.
Derailment phenomenon 2: often work overtime
A man who has an affair should spend time with his lover outside of work and experience the ecstasy and beauty of warm and fragrant nephrite. Naturally, he cannot go home with his wife on time. Of course, the wife will call, send text messages and ask the man why he doesn't come home so late and who he is with.
Men usually speak up and answer: overtime.
At first, my wife also painfully told me to eat dinner at work. However, as the number of overtime increases, the wife will become suspicious. Men will immediately make a face of grievance: I work so hard and work overtime, is it not for you and your children to live better? Otherwise, I will accompany you at home every day, and you will earn money to support me!
When most wives hear men's words, they will feel a sense of self-blame, thinking that they have misunderstood their husband.
The man saw that his wife gave up the idea of doubting him, went home to accompany his wife several times honestly, coaxed her into raptures, and continued to "work overtime" outside.
Derailment phenomenon 3: too much entertainment
These days, men with a little skill like to socialize outside. For men, entertainment is decent and beautiful. It seems that without entertainment, it is not enough to prove a man's ability and success in his career.
Women also mostly like men with social skills.
Most of these men can earn money and bring enough material guarantee to her and her children's lives.
Therefore, smart men will dress up in the dress of entertainment and develop extramarital affairs in a dignified manner outside. When his wife began to resent his constant socializing outside every night, the man's justification was more than anyone else's: you think I would like to do this, and then take the eldest brother, his wife's brother, as an example to illustrate that he went home after work every day, less than 1000 yuan a month, always looking for groceries, eating frugally, or saving enough money for his children to go to college, and his wife scolded him every day as a wimp. Do you want me to be that man? If you wish, I will stay at home from tomorrow after work, cooking, washing dishes and washing clothes for you.
When the wife listens to it, she immediately has no electricity. Before hanging up the phone, she should gently tell the man to eat more vegetables and drink less.
When the man closes the thread, he is happy. With a little wisdom, he can get his wife's heart.
Derailment phenomenon 4: absent-mindedness
When he came home, he was restless no matter what he did. He was particularly sensitive to the ringing of the phone and refused to answer the phone in front of his wife. If his wife asked him what was wrong, he would deny it in an arrogant manner - what could I do? Are you suspicious of me? When this happens, I can tell you with great certainty that he is outside and has a "situation".
As the old saying goes, a man who has no secret outside will face all the phone calls calmly at home, and will not be absent-minded, and will not be rude to his wife's inquiries.