Post Date December, 03 2023
As long as you have had contact with homosexuals, you will have a question: are they innate or acquired? But whether innate or acquired, homosexuality is aimed at satisfying sexual desires with the same sex, and homosexuality is more common among unmarried adolescents, especially males. There are more Western countries than Eastern countries, and there are far more people in China who engage in homosexual behavior than people imagine. According to a survey, 1% to 2% of men are homosexual. Based on this calculation, the absolute number of homosexuals among China's 1.2 billion population will be quite astonishing.
There have been reports that there are dozens of homosexual activity venues in a certain city, mostly public toilets, bathrooms, restaurants, bars, cinemas, singing halls, etc., and hundreds of homosexuals come here every day for activities; Fifteen percent of the consulting calls made by a research institute in recent years are from people who claim to be gay.
Consultation case:
Li Yu, male, 23 years old, has a quiet personality, speaks few words, speaks softly, is shy and shy, has a shy gait, and speaks and behaves like a girl. She is good at drawing female portraits, likes drama, plays female roles, and is lifelike. She likes to do female work, weave sweaters, wash clothes, cook and stir fry vegetables, etc; Starting at the age of 16, I like to approach male classmates who are handsome in appearance and have a gentle personality, and I feel inexplicably fond and comfortable in my heart. Meeting women can be quite annoying; Whenever I miss the male classmate I admire, I feel overwhelmed, restless, restless, unable to sleep, unable to control myself until I see each other; Once at home late at night, this desire sprouted and couldn't resist. He ran to school and knocked on the dormitory door of the boy he admired. After meeting him, he said a few words and felt very happy. After returning home, he fell asleep soundly.
After work, Li Yu fell in love with a male colleague again, taking care of him in every way and showing great affection to win his favor. Suddenly, he found out that the other person was close to a woman, and his heart was filled with disappointment; Proactively approach a certain man, take great care of him, often serve him with delicious food, wash his face and feet with water, sew clothes and pants, eat and live with him, often sleep with him in the same bed, and ask him to touch and kiss him; The family knew that they wanted to find a female companion for him, but he refused with death, wrote a suicide note, and attempted suicide several times; Sleeping with a man whom I admire later feels satisfied.
Analysis and treatment:
Li Yu consulted with a psychological counselor and believed that he was "born with an incurable disease". They just fell in love with someone of their own gender and did not cause harm to society.
For congenital homosexuality, changing habits is impossible, and the only solution is to use the principles of psychological science to adjust psychological cognition and behavioral posture, in order to alleviate or eliminate the pain caused by cultural pressure within the psychology of homosexuals.
