Compared to women, men are generally less willing to go to the hospital to check if they have infertility problems. If your husband is the same, you might as well ask him why he doesn't want to go first.
Men have many concerns and concerns, the most important of which is that they are worried that they will be found to have problems, so you will think it is their fault. He may also be afraid of not being able to provide semen samples or unwilling to have others' judge 'him.
He may also be concerned that if diagnosed with infertility, it may indicate that he is "impotent". If that's the case, you'd better remind him that there is no connection between the two, and there is no scientific basis for thinking this way.
Men with erectile dysfunction will still have strong fertility as long as they can produce enough sperm to fertilize their eggs. Conversely, a very masculine man may also be diagnosed as completely infertile. Before receiving any invasive treatment for infertility, all of these factors can and need to be examined one by one.
Furthermore, it is best for all of you to relax, as in most cases, male infertility can be successfully cured. However, in order to do so, one must first undergo a doctor's examination and diagnosis. If possible, it's best for your husband to have the necessary semen samples ready at home to go to the hospital for examination. Perhaps you can also help him. You can also go to the doctor in advance to inquire if a specialized condom is needed to collect semen.
(Intern Editor: Xie Yunsheng)