Post Date April, 15 2023
Managing a marriage is like building a house. Building a good foundation is fundamental. In addition, under the corrosion of the wind and sun, we should carefully protect and correct it. A happy marriage is obtained through continuous maintenance and renewal. Only in this way can marriage keep full vitality. So, should we manage our own marriage?
First: improve your self-cultivation
A woman who is always attractive is not only her beauty, but also her overall temperament and cultivation. The really lovely thing about women is to believe in their own values, love themselves, respect their own wishes and requirements, and be an independent and complete woman, not the other half of a man. We should achieve the unity of external beauty and internal beauty by constantly improving ourselves, so as to maintain the lasting attraction.
Second: tap each other's potential
The relationship between husband and wife is like a newborn baby, which needs nutrition to grow. This requires both parties to work together to bring new knowledge to each other, help each other explore their potential, surpass themselves, and get along with others in a more mature state of mind. Couples should have a sense of sharing, patience, gratitude, acceptance and forgiveness. Only in this way can you provide sufficient nutrition for your feelings.
Third: master communication skills
Communication is very important in a marriage. If there is no good communication between husband and wife, it is easy to produce conflicts, and then the relationship between husband and wife will be like an empty ship, carrying a frustrated journey full of confusion, speculation and misunderstanding. Nothing is more heartache than the seemingly detached. Communication can help each other understand their needs, wishes, changes and feelings, which is an important way for couples to maintain a smooth and active relationship with each other.
Fourth: Both sides share weal and woe
There is a saying that "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and fly separately in the face of disaster", which should not be what the husband and wife should do. Both husband and wife should be interactive, harmonious and mutually supportive. When one person is weak, another person should help the other party to be strong and overcome difficulties together. When one person wins, share it with another person. Therefore, in marriage, you should establish a life mechanism to let your partner share your success and suffering.
The above is the way to stabilize marriage. In addition, couples should cherish the person beside them and resolve the conflicts between them in time. You should also constantly update the emotional relationship between the two people and keep it fresh and energetic. If some of them are lost, you should rebuild it; If it is damaged, you should repair it. You must always inject fresh vitality into your marriage, so that it can last forever.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
