Post Date December, 03 2023
When you think that eternal love has become a thing of the past, facing such a sad reality, you may feel as if your entire world is suddenly about to be turned upside down. This feeling is like being unexpectedly splashed by a bucket of cold water.
From that moment on, you will have to face life with a new attitude and discover that there is no longer him or her in your daily life. However, if you want to stay in touch with the other person, be a friend, or become a lover again, you must maintain your dignity and demeanor, even in times of great pain and unhappiness, you cannot lose your dignity and demeanor.
Perhaps you haven't realized it yet, and perhaps you can also become good friends and start a deep friendship. It is precisely because you both cared about each other very much in the beginning that you developed into love, so you may also become friends in the future. Do you still care about each other. Can I still be friends? Or just a stranger? When breaking up, your attitude and behavior may determine your future relationship.
If you are currently experiencing a breakup, please remember to remain sober and optimistic.
1. Do not proactively contact within two weeks. If the other party proactively contacts you, you should also briefly end the other party, and do not emphasize the problem between you again, or complain about the other party.
2. If you think you want to say something to the other person, then buy a notebook and write down your feelings and what you want to say. Even if you have already written down the address of the envelope, remember not to send it out. This is just a way to vent one's thoughts and emotions. One day, you will surely be grateful for not telling the other person your thoughts.
3. Remember to be grateful to the other party for walking so many paths with you and sharing so much happiness together. And wish the other party even more happiness in the future.
4. Don't constantly confide in yourself about the problem, and don't always pester friends. Long term immersion in past unhappiness or negativity is unhealthy. If you want to be with friends, do more positive or creative activities to keep yourself busy.
5. Once you can focus your attention on your new life, then you are giving yourself a chance to start anew and live a different life. What will the new life be like? Of course, you can do something you've always wanted to do, but because you're with your ex and don't have time to do it, you can do it now.
6. It is also my responsibility to acknowledge the failure of this relationship. However, love is certainly a two-way street, and there is no need to complain about what one has done or what the other person has not done. Analyze which relationships or types of partners you are more suitable for.
7. If the other party wants to give everyone another chance to get back together, then don't immediately agree. Think carefully and see if the original problem has been resolved. If the original problem still exists, soon after the reunion, you will also face the possibility of breaking up again.
8. If the other party already has a new partner, try to avoid encountering them as much as possible. It should be noted that if the other party already likes someone else, they cannot be the one you are looking for. This means that the other half you are looking for is still waiting for you.
