Post Date December, 03 2023
In marriage, the normal interaction between couples is very casual and straightforward, without any lies. However, once one party goes off the rails, this way of getting along will change, although there may not be any major changes. However, if you keep Dim sum, you will find that many things have changed. So, if you want to know if your man has slept in someone else's bed, you can start with the following few details.
Try to make him swear
Although this method may sound a bit outdated, it is very practical in China. In Chinese people's minds, oaths cannot be spoken casually, and if not done properly, there will be retribution. So, when you suspect the other person is lying, if you say 'I don't believe it, swear!' in a coquettish and joking tone, but the other person responds with 'Why is it so boring?' or 'I didn't do it again, why did you ask me to swear?' and even throw tantrums and congratulations. It's probably true, otherwise why would the reaction be so intense?
Suddenly very kind to you
If your man's attitude towards you begins to change, as if he has changed a person, especially understanding and caring for you, you need to be careful. In the past, he always valued his work or friends and didn't spend any time or effort on you. Today, he suddenly called you to show his concern; A big piece of wood that you usually forget even on birthdays or anniversaries, but suddenly bought a thoughtful little gift for you; Suddenly accompany you to do what he used to dislike the most; Otherwise, suddenly helping you cook, wash clothes, and so on, this "sudden change" of "too many gifts must be deceitful" must be hiding and killing one's inner unease and guilt.
Small movements can speak
Although a person's small actions are unintentional and may not be noticed by oneself, they are indeed a reflection of a person's true thoughts and psychology. According to psychological theory, lying often involves involuntary and fixed small actions. In the clinical research of criminal psychology, it is also found that when a criminal lies, he can often observe some fixed small actions, such as looking right in the front, touching his nose, rubbing his hands, blinking, sweating, stuttering, etc. These small actions vary from person to person, but as long as he has been carefully observed for a long time, he will know when he is a "big liar".
Always disappearing suddenly
If he starts treating you with sudden coldness and warmth, doesn't appear in front of you often, and even suddenly disappears from time to time, if he says it's a temporary emergency in the company after appearing (probably hiding somewhere to talk about action); I can't see anyone after work, but when I show up, I say it's because the company supervisor has a temporary meeting (there aren't really many meetings to attend); The situation of being late for appointments is becoming more and more serious, but using traffic congestion, going to the bathroom as excuses, and such "disappearing situations" can be ignored once or twice. If they are too frequent, it is likely that the other party has deliberately concealed something.
Always unable to reach people
With the advancement of technology, mobile phones have brought people a lot of convenience, narrowing the practical distance between the two parties, but also widening the psychological distance between them. However, if his communication technology often fails, he needs to be careful whether the distance between them is getting further apart. On holidays or late at night, the phone is always turned off, the phone at home is always not answered, and the call is often not answered. These "communication barriers" indicate that the other party must have concealed something, and the situation has reached a somewhat serious level. So, you can find a good time to talk to him.
In addition to some details above indicating that he has cheated, there is also something that cannot be ignored: he will no longer make sexual demands on you. At this time, if you want to save your marriage, you can take the initiative and use ODEN Odan 2 to make sexual life interesting and novel, making his eyes bright, and perhaps he will go home.
