Post Date December, 03 2023
Harmonious sexual life is a shortcut to promoting a happy married life, effectively helping couples grow old together. But aging is an irresistible natural phenomenon for humans. As we age, our marital life becomes increasingly difficult. Especially after ten years of marriage, the understanding of each other between couples is like understanding a certain part of their own body. So what should be done to make the couple's life more fulfilling at this time?
Pursuing new sexual experiences
Pursuing new experiences is a human instinct. Once anything lacks novelty, boredom and boredom will follow, and sex is no exception. It's like eating big meals every day, and over time, it's bound to get tired. Therefore, couples need to learn to constantly innovate in the "new flavors" and "new feelings" of sexual activity. It is recommended to have sex in different rooms or locations, try new sexual postures, and even use sexual toys, which can give both spouses a new feeling. In short, refuse to remain unchanged and keep trying new things.
Good communication eliminates grievances
What should I do if my husband mocks me? "" What should I do if my wife thinks I'm abnormal? "Such concerns will completely disappear in honest communication between the couple. When one party expresses interest in a novel matter, the other party should listen attentively and pay close attention. Communication between both parties can avoid the feeling of being used as a tool by the other party. When discussing sexual issues, one should first say something encouraging to the other party, and then propose new improvement suggestions or needs.
Laughing heartily to help with sex
Couples should learn to laugh and enjoy themselves in life, and sometimes even learn to mock themselves. For example, when trying a new sexual technique, there may be situations where one is unable to follow instructions or even appears clumsy. At this point, being too serious can lead to frustration or awkwardness, while laughing happily can easily turn new attempts into fun and help bring couples closer together.
Accept the aging changes in the body
Old husbands and wives often believe that they understand each other's needs well, but as they age and undergo physical changes, their bodies may change. Men may no longer have erections that last as long, and women may experience vaginal dryness. At this point, it is important to accept and seek solutions together. Using lubricants and taking Viagra can sometimes help couples.
Do some romantic things together
Although sexual activity should naturally come naturally, a reasonable sexual plan for couples can pave the way for a harmonious sexual life for both parties. For example, if you usually go to bed exhausted until 11 o'clock every night, it's best to plan a weekly night for couples to go to bed at 9 o'clock at the same time, regulate their emotions, light candles, take a hot bath, and do foreplay
Pay attention to every move of the right person
One major reason for marital problems is that each other's attention to each other is not as high as before. The most taboo in couples' communication or sexual activity is' multitasking '. Experts suggest that during the intimate process of couples, it is best to turn off the TV, set the phone to undisturbed mode, mute the phone, and avoid checking email or playing video games online.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
