Post Date November, 16 2024
How can couples make their sexual life more harmonious? The harmony of sexual love between couples is not only conducive to the happiness of their marriage, but also to the physical and mental health of the couple. So how can couples make their sexual life more harmonious? Below, the editor will introduce it to you.
Sexual happiness comes from multiple interactions between couples
1. Tame yourself and you can tame your husband
Why does marriage make people feel lonely? It is mostly due to the relationship where expectations fail. I originally hoped that our partner could meet our needs and heal our own wounds, but I didn't expect that as long as we had external needs, they could not be satisfied. Sometimes the other person has no ability to fill the pain in your heart, just like two people holding an empty bowl, desperately demanding that the other person give you some first, and in the end, the two of them snatch and snatch, the bowl is broken and nothing is obtained.
For example, if a father's scolding makes one lack confidence, this person is particularly susceptible to being attracted to people who share the same traits as their father. But she hopes that this time the other party will change for herself, restore her confidence, and the wound can be healed. However, often things go against her wishes and she is hurt again.
Many people punish others for problems that are hidden within themselves. In fact, everyone grew up with the wounds of their original family, and everyone has some regrets to some extent. Research has found that individuals who develop fatal attraction often have similar traits to those who have harmed their parents before.
2. The gift you want, you give it first
What do you hope the other party will give you? You may as well give it to the other party first, and it will gradually change. The more you want me to be, the less I tend to be. The more you want to change someone, the less likely it is to achieve your goals.
For example, a woman has always been looking forward to her boyfriend's affirmation and praise, but the criticism and analysis they give her are always more than comfort, making her often angry and frustrated yet making changes. Firstly, learning to praise the other person without stinginess can unconsciously lead to positive interaction between the two.
3. Let go of expectations for the other party
Let go of your expectations for the other party! Many times when others talk and make us feel hurt and angry, it's actually because the old wounds in our hearts have not healed, but now this person steps on the pain and detonates a mine. To learn to accept and let go, to feel and bravely accept various negative emotions that arise in the present.
