Post Date December, 03 2023
What is love in the world? It only teaches people how to live and die together. This is the biggest misconception about love. In fact, good love can achieve each other, while bad love can constrain both parties. The world is so vast, where is there no fragrant grass? Love teaches us the ability to love, while heartbreak teaches us the ability to self recover. The ability to remain in love without losing a loved one is the most precious asset that breakdowns teach us. This article teaches you how to overcome disappointment after a breakup.
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Firstly, learn to divert one's attention
When you are in a breakup, you are easily trapped in the abyss of inferiority and may even look down on yourself. If you blindly immerse yourself in such an atmosphere, it is easy to hurt yourself. In fact, what heartbreak tests is a person's ability to self recover. You can take advantage of the breakup and spend your time elsewhere. When you learn to shift your attention, you can reduce the harm of a breakup. Even if you can't forget the other person, you can at least control yourself from recalling things related to them. So you can travel, you can visit family, you can even go to an orphanage, you can see how others live, and in this process of paying attention to others, you can slowly shift your attention, and gradually find your former self.
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Secondly, think about the other person's shortcomings
When in love, because you love each other, all you see are their strengths. In fact, the other party also has many shortcomings, but you always ignore them. Think about the other person's self, their willfulness, are these things you can handle now? If you constantly compromise with the other party, it will only make them look down on you even more. In love, one can overlook right and wrong, but in life, arguments often arise due to right and wrong. Love is actually just a feeling. If the other person cannot comfort you when you are tired, cannot stand by your side when you are helpless, and cannot accompany you when you are lost, then this kind of love should not be ignored. You should know that when you love someone, you can treat them as treasures. When the other person doesn't love you, you can also treat them as grass. Missed love and lost love are not called love, they can only be called youth, that's all.
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Finally, think about what kind of person is suitable for you
Love is actually a process of exploration. Neither party in love knows who is suitable for them. So "a lesson from the past, a teacher from the future." By falling in love, you can discover your own weaknesses and also discover the uniqueness of the other person. By falling in love, one can better find a love that suits oneself. What was missed or lost may not belong to you at all. The best thing in life is to let nature take its course. Simply demanding will only lead to losing oneself. So, since we cannot have mutual affection, it can only indicate that the other party does not know how to cherish you. And it should be noted that the first person to let go is often the most open-minded. If you can't think of it yourself, it's just unrequited love. Instead of this, it's better to be free and easy. Some people, some things, should be let go, and should be forgotten. Long pain is better than short pain. It's so great, there's no need to worry!
Falling in love is not about losing the ability to love, it just makes you calm down and think about the past, the present, and the future. If the other party gives up on you, you don't have to feel sad because you haven't met someone who truly understands you. Where is there no fragrant grass in the world, why should you fall in love with a single flower? "Be free and easy, and you will surely overcome your loss!
