Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage does not mean a perfect beginning, and no matter who it is, they may not have the courage to face the princess and become a yellow faced woman in the kitchen. The prince has developed a general belly, and romantic love has been replaced by plain life. Sweet words have been replaced by daily chatter. These are the "dark side" that real marriages must face, but few people actively mention.
People used to tell newlyweds that the best way to resolve a dispute is to go to bed and sleep. But in real life, when one party scolds the other before going to bed, the more they think about it, the more angry they become; The other party fell asleep amid incessant complaints. When I woke up the next day, I was still full of dissatisfaction.>> Uncover Secrets: Four Root Causes of Couples' Frequent Arguments
"I had this misconception myself and almost ended my marriage.". Later, I slowly discovered that if there are frequent disputes in life, it is best to calm down first, give yourself sufficient time and space, and think carefully about what the trigger is and whether you are really injured. "If anger simply stems from working under too much pressure or feeling neglected, and using arguments as a way to vent or attract the attention of a loved one, endless arguments can only make you more excited and things get worse.".
Some people say, "A happy marriage shouldn't have quarrels," or "If there is a disagreement between two people, either you or I are right.". The truth is, there is no right or wrong in the opinions expressed by couples. Listening to each other's views and embracing them with a tolerant attitude are the best ways to solve problems. On the other hand, it's not a good thing to suppress your feelings too much. Because once a suppressed emotion erupts, it is more difficult to handle it. The best way to resolve differences is through frank communication between two people.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
