No matter how many years of marriage a couple has, they will always encounter bumps in the way of life, big or small conflicts, and the key to the conflict depends on how to solve it. Different contradictions and different ways to deal with them, let's look at the tips given by netizens and experts' comments.
Experience of netizens: report to "superior"
Dawei's wife is a powerful role. Regardless of the size of the family, she should have the upper hand. Dawei's fists often itch with anger, but she dare not touch her finger. The last time he couldn't help it, he slapped his wife back to her mother's house. Dawei didn't bother to get her back. Seeing his wife's arrogance getting more and more arrogant, Dawei thinks you can tell me, can't you?! When his wife was unreasonable again, he took the initiative to go to his parents-in-law's house to read aloud. This move was really effective. After all, his wife was unreasonable, and was afraid of upsetting his parents, so he often automatically stopped. Now Dawei's amulet is: "If you make trouble again, I can tell your parents!"
Expert comments: When I think of playing house wine when I was young, I would complain to my parents when I was annoyed, and it often works. Just remember, don't catch up with the "calf protector".>> A happy sex life makes marriage "impeccable"
Experience of netizens: love camping
Feier's husband has no choice but to play tricks! The working environment of her husband determines that he is surrounded by young and beautiful girls, who are surrounded by colorful flowers and often think they are Jia Baoyu, or the rumors of true or false make Feier headache. There is no way. In addition to strengthening political and ideological work, we have to think of other ways. Feier's usual method is surprise attack. I ran to my husband's office and said I was tired from shopping for a while; Or when my husband called and said that he was going to work overtime tonight, he would take a love lunch box to comfort him. At this time, you can make a face in front of the public, announce that your husband has "the owner of famous flowers", and also give him a wake-up call.
Expert comments: Such a sudden attack is really overwhelming, and it is estimated that Feier's husband will also suffer enough. But don't overdo it. After all, work and life should be separated!
Experience of netizens: cold treatment
Ever since their marriage, the Yongchuan couple have always quarreled, and the neighbors are used to the rule that they quarrel every three to five times, and even those who persuade them do not come. There are many quarrels, and Yongchuan is a little tired of this state. When his wife finds fault again, he will take the policy of no resistance. I will stand still in spite of the wind and rain. No one answered his wife's killing move, so there was no following. The cold war often lasts for two or three days. After all, the wife is a woman. She is not used to this gloomy atmosphere. Finally, she often takes the initiative to commit.
Expert comments: This is a dangerous action, not a master should not imitate. You should know that cold violence is the most hurtful thing for husband and wife!
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)