It is very normal for men to have friends of the opposite sex, but it is important to guard against them having confidants, otherwise your life and status will be affected. Below, the editor will introduce several types of male confidants and their corresponding strategies. We hope everyone can be patient and take a look.
1. Soft and weak type
That is to say, pretending to be petite and small. A typical example of such women being more prominent is the female lead type in Cao Xueqin's Lin Meimei and Qiong Yao's plays, who are gentle and weak, and need to find a target to rely on. If your husband belongs to that type of person who is fond of fragrance and cherishes jade, then you need to pay extra attention.
Countermeasures: Take action when it's time to do so
You need to be clear that simply enduring will not result in a man changing his mind, but in reckless behavior. Faced with such a woman, the wife should speak out her dissatisfaction and anger loudly, and directly tell her husband that she cares and let him know the bottom line of your patience. If that beauty still keeps looking for your husband, then take the opportunity to jot down her number and confidently tell her that he belongs to you. He has no obligation to respond to anyone's demands.
2. Intentionally disruptive type
The most appropriate statement would be to be afraid of chaos in the world. Women like to see what men look like when they are confused by themselves, and they always like to talk to men about sexual matters, even make a few ambiguous phone calls, allowing men to indulge in this temptation and interest. When you protest, he will feel that you are making a fuss.
Countermeasure: Put down your figure and fight
Such women are often very attractive and have a strong killing power. Although they may not take relationships so seriously, they will definitely affect your family life. So as a wife, it's best to put down your figure and engage in a fight with her, such as occasionally dressing up trendy and open, to shift your husband's attention to you.
3. Brother and Brother Style
This kind of woman may be your husband's playmate when he was a child, or his good friend during his school days. This type of woman may have never been in love, or may not have much self-consciousness about romantic matters. Always thinking of calling your husband out to pass the time together, forgetting that her good friend is already someone with a family.
Countermeasure: Directly tell the other party that there is no time
Such women often overlook that their buddies already have women. Faced with such women, wives should try their best to arrange things for their husbands, so that they can't get away from them and learn to say 'I don't have time' to each other. If possible, you can introduce a few partners to her so that your husband doesn't have to spend time with her.
4. Literary and artistic youth type
This type of woman is relatively petty bourgeoisie and has a rampant literary complex. She likes to talk about life philosophy and socialize with others. Whenever a man has a little heart to heart with her, she regards her as a "blue confidant". She always likes to find someone to drink tea, talk about her life ideals, and even send each other some emotional messages.
Countermeasure: Take the initiative to talk and handle coldly
Such women pursue spiritual communication, although their purpose is not to talk about emotions, it is inevitable that problems will arise over time. Faced with such a woman, it's best for a wife to proactively find her husband and have a conversation. Of course, don't show your jealousy, just tell him that his recent behavior has caused many negative reviews from everyone, and let him handle it well on his own.
5. Network chat type
Nowadays, the internet is so developed that it is normal to make a few friends online, and most men have a few female netizens. I usually chat online and sometimes even see each other to pass the time. The content of the chat may also involve some ambiguous words, but your husband thinks it's just a chat and doesn't do anything out of the ordinary.
Countermeasures: Never be soft hearted
Most women who chat online are lonely women, and such women are very dangerous, so they cannot be soft hearted. As a wife, you can manipulate your own computer and intentionally or unintentionally reinstall the system, causing his contact information to be lost. If he enjoys flirting online, it's better to transform into a versatile beauty on the other end of the internet and persuade him in another way.
In short, you need to adopt relative strategies based on different types of female confidants, in order to effectively drive away men's female confidants.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)