Lone men and widows, no matter how strong their love is, men inevitably want to have further contact. But sometimes the woman can be very resistant to actions that are too intimate. So, what if there is an embarrassing rejection situation?
How to alleviate awkwardness when rejected due to lust?
1. You can blush, but you can't panic
Calm down, calm down again. When embarrassment suddenly appears, although a momentary blush is inevitable, one must not panic in the heart. That is not only unhelpful, but also easy to make others feel weak. Don't easily argue, the earlier you admit your mistake, the easier it is to be misunderstood.
2. Brave to self deprecate
Since the awkward situation is inevitable, it is necessary to muster enough courage to face reality, or even directly challenge it.
3. Pretend to be foolish and pretend to be foolish
Although we don't really want to be fools, what's wrong with using some special methods to escape danger and solve difficulties in special situations, while placing tangible dilemmas in intangible ignorance?
4. Take advantage of the situation and turn disadvantages into advantages
Advantages and disadvantages have always been relative, as long as the key points are found, it is not impossible to turn disadvantages into advantages.
5. Transfer awkwardness
There is a so-called pain transfer method in medicine, where when a difficult to conquer pain is replaced by another more easily conquered pain, the former pain often gradually loses its original pain under the influence of the latter pain. This method is also used for self-regulation in awkward moments. However, it must be noted that the awkwardness you are transferring should be an opportunity for goodwill to create jokes.
6. Pretend to be psychologically fragile
People generally sympathize with the weak, and when an awkward moment arises, you should immediately react excessively, either regretfully or in agony. In short, you must make others appear psychologically fragile, as if what happened earlier had excessively damaged your self-esteem. Under normal circumstances, people will definitely not chase and beat you after seeing your "tragic situation", and the embarrassment will come to an end.
7. No courage? Then quickly withdraw!
If you can't afford to avoid it, it's best to leave with a thirty-six plan. If you do not have the courage and ability to cope with awkward situations, your best choice is to quickly evacuate the scene, the faster the better. For those who are naturally timid but extremely sensitive, anticipating the possibility of awkward situations in advance or leaving quickly when there are any signs of awkward situations is truly a clever trick.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)