Zhang Ailing once said a very penetrating sentence: Every man has two roses in his heart - a red rose and a white rose.
I think for a man: he should have three women.
One is the white lotus. It was a boy's first love, pure and beautiful as a dream. You can only watch from a distance and not play with it. For many men, it is a distant white lotus that repeatedly flickers in the youthful and astringent dreams.
One is a red rose. That's a man's passion. The fire is red and warm, and the shock is like electricity. Not only can you squeeze into your arms, but you can also kiss heartily. After washing with red roses, the boy became a man. Red roses are a wine that mature men cannot put down.
One is a carnation. That's a man's wife. Warm and elegant, full of emotions. She is the driving force of men's struggle, the reliance of men's hearts, and the harbor of men's return. She is a man's second mother. Men are all children by nature, and carnations will indulge their playfulness with a smile and patiently wait for them to return home when they are tired from playing.
Therefore, in the growth of a man's life, he will secretly love a white lotus, he will passionately love a red rose, but he will choose a carnation to spend his life together.
Bai Lian is not suitable for living together, because she is so extraordinary and refined, and does not eat interpersonal fireworks; Red roses can stimulate men's desire to conquer and promote male hormone secretion, but to live with a truly passionate red rose, many men do not have such confidence, because they will worry about either setting themselves on fire or harming the fish in the pond; And many men just need a wife who is as warm and tolerant as a carnation.
However, if you are a lucky enough man, you will have the opportunity to meet the white lotus in your dream, then turn her into a red rose, and finally evolve into a carnation.