Post Date December, 03 2023
After arriving in the United States, Shi Kang, the writer, once expressed the feeling of "unwilling to marry Chinese women again" because Chinese women are not as capable as foreign women. A "woman man" who received education in the United States and returned to China for development told us from her own experience that Chinese women who "can't take care of themselves" can't get rid of Chinese men.
When I was a child, I often listened to my mother talk about how the fashionable female students in Shanghai who were able to "do" sent boys to and from places, usually the spare tire 1 drew water, the spare tire 2 took notes, the spare tire 3 took the postgraduate examination together, and the boyfriend took her abroad with her... When my mother said this, The tone is always full of indignant affectation: "I don't have the ability of other Shanghai girls to whine, and I am born to be tired." I am confused about my outlook on life. Does she mean it's not good for me to stop learning? Or is it my ability to cultivate? Today, many years later, I realized that my mother didn't know what was right. Now that she is in her 60s, she is at the end of her life and still at a loss on this issue.
After the writer Shi Kang went to the United States, he sighed that many of the Chinese women he met in the past were like "disabled". That is probably the kind of women my mother envied - good-looking, cuddly, walking from chest to leg. Men are always worshipped with one eye on the stars. Such women cater to the psychological needs and protection desire of most Chinese men, and gain a comfortable life by playing coquettish and showing weakness. Don't do anything. Men will rush to be "cash machines"+"strong labor". When I was in college, I saw what my mother called "being a girl" in Shanghai, with a sweet voice. Every night, my boyfriend accompanied me to open the water. The thin southern boy was carrying four pots of boiling water alone, his arms were pulled out of shape, and his back was bent. The girl next to him was eating meat dumplings while walking. When I looked at them, I suddenly realized my mother's feelings of scorn and envy.
Unfortunately, I was sent to the United States before I could enjoy the "care" of my Chinese boyfriend. In the United States, Asian girls are very popular with international friends from all over the world. I think the spring of my "man" who has been squeezed into the corner by Shanghai's "maid" has finally arrived.
