Post Date April, 15 2023
If you don't honestly disclose these secrets, if accidentally exposed, it may face a double blow to the marriage: the first is the impact on each other when the truth is exposed; The second aspect is the sense of betrayal and distrust that arises from this. Confessing a secret requires a certain level of skill, and if not mastered well, it is likely to 'do evil with good intentions'. Marriage experts have summarized four precautions: first, do not engage in sudden attacks. You can make an appointment with the other party first, such as "I have something important to tell you, can I take some time to chat tonight?" Secondly, choose the occasion for "leak". It is best to find a safe and neutral place, such as a study or a quiet park, with no third party present, even if it is a child. Once again, be prepared to apologize. The correct attitude is to first say 'I'm sorry', then emphasize 'I should have told you these things a long time ago, but I've been ashamed to do that and hope you can forgive me.' Finally, when confessing, there's no need to disclose too many details. Otherwise, it will leave a difficult to clear image in the partner's mind, which is not beneficial to each other's emotions..
The correct attitude is to first say 'I'm sorry', then emphasize 'I should have told you these things a long time ago, but I've been ashamed to do that and hope you can forgive me.' Finally, when confessing, there's no need to disclose too many details. Otherwise, it will leave a difficult to clear image in the partner's mind, which is not beneficial to each other's emotions..
