Post Date December, 02 2023
No one can tolerate the betrayal of their partners, let alone allow extramarital affairs to destroy their families. In the face of cheating, it is necessary to use some appropriate method to counter it. Here are four most practical methods that friends in need can use to break the conspiracy of extramarital love.
First hit
Appropriately assess the degree of emotional displacement of the derailed party and its impact on themselves and their families. When a party is about to have an extramarital affair, as long as the constraints of morality and responsibility are beneficial to those who maintain their emotions, they should have confidence in themselves and not be influenced by imagined fears.
Second blow
Comprehensively analyze the reasons for the derailed party's emotional displacement, reflect on whether their marriage and family life are lacking, and whether they are responsible for this. A realistic and effective attitude is not to find out who is making noise, but to strengthen communication and take responsibility. For example, why did he meet a woman on a business trip and fall in love? If he is not seeking flowers to ask Liu's generation, it indicates that he is indeed suppressing certain psychological needs in his marriage and family, and it also indicates that there is already a certain crisis lurking in their marriage.
The crisis in one's marriage and family life has been exposed through this incident. If it can be handled properly, it is necessary to face up to this crisis and eliminate it through the joint efforts of both spouses, so as to achieve the combination of the two hearts at a higher level.
Third blow
Reasonably understand the relationship between the character of the derailer and the lack of mistakes. "He made a mistake in a specific situation, deviating from the course of moral and family responsibilities, and cannot be said to be an" immoral person "just because of this matter," fixing "one-time mistakes.".
The fourth blow
If one party repents of their mistakes, the other party should look further and truly forgive the other party. Some people say, "I can forgive, but I can't forget," which is equivalent to "I don't forgive.". Forgiveness should be like a cancelled bill. Forgiveness that is remembered and forgiveness that is held in mind can cause the wounds that are trying to heal to reopen.
