Post Date December, 02 2023
Everyone has their own things in their hearts that they don't want to be touched by others, and men who appear strong on the outside are also the same. In our survey, the results showed that most men are unwilling to let others talk about the following things. Now let's take a look at which things men are unwilling to let others know!
Past emotional experiences
Every man's past is a well preserved spiritual diary, which may occasionally be taken out and flipped over, but it will never be easily shared with others; Especially the chapter about women. But almost all men have complex and turbulent emotional experiences. In the men's circle, showing off how outstanding and beautiful the women around him have been is also a special way for men to prove themselves; But in the face of women nowadays, they will never easily mention it, because even the unforgettable past is a matter of another world. Moreover, even women with high quality and self-restraint are inevitably not willing to break the sand pot and ask the truth about past events. If they encounter a 'jealous jar', wouldn't it be like they are asking for trouble?
Everyone will be curious about the past of the person they love the most around them, wanting to have everything they love is an instinct, an instinct of love. But once you know, besides the pain, what else will be left behind? Love requires sincere treatment, but it also requires secrets. The so-called secret is to give love a space, let love breathe freely, and maintain the freshness and mystery of love. Finally, one day, when I mustered the courage to speak to him, he stopped me. He gently pressed my lips and said, 'Don't say anything, everyone has a past. Without the past, the present cannot be formed. No one has the right to trample on the green space of others' hearts at will.'. Listening to a man's heart: Love me, don't ask about my past
The vanity of men
Men are all players, and if a man enjoys racing and is also a center forward on the football field, his charm will suddenly increase in front of women. Therefore, men must have several true skills, and at worst, they must play one of them with a good demeanor, so as not to lose face in front of women. So there was a man who played tennis for his godgirlfriend and secretly practiced hard himself first. The house cannot be taken away, so there are men who spend all their money buying fragrant cars to deceive and deceive. It is impossible to borrow a car or rent it for a day to satisfy their vanity.
During his high school years, Maupassant's "The Necklace" was the wife of the vain civil servant who worked hard for ten years to create a necklace. At that time, I thought vanity was a woman's patent. After growing up, I realized that men actually admire vanity more than women. A woman's vanity is superficial, and a necklace can satisfy her vanity. A man's vanity is innate.
Men's Sexual Anxiety
One theory is that men have a one-time fantasy every six minutes, and they won't think about it until they are busy with it. After thinking about it every 6 minutes for 6 consecutive days, men start to need to do something about it, but few women know about men's anxiety about sex. Many men have wondered in their hearts how big this thing can be once they have an erection, before they have had the opportunity to give their penis a try? They constantly comfort themselves by saying that size is not the key - 'it's not about its size, it's about how you use it'. But in fact, the issue of size has always plagued them. In addition, men are afraid of women who are more skilled than them in bed, and this kind of competition will make them afraid. Of course, when men cannot, they are most afraid of women saying, "Are you sick?" As for prostatitis, impotence, premature ejaculation, hair loss, insomnia, kidney deficiency, palpitations, hemorrhoids, etc., which are all bad names that men dare not face.
In current life, it seems common for men, especially middle-aged men, to have kidney deficiency. Women's tears are gold, and when a woman complains that her partner is not good, people will be very sympathetic. In contrast, if a man cannot do it, it seems that he has committed an unforgivable crime, and what he receives is not sympathy, but disdain from the same kind and a monster in the eyes of the opposite sex.
Men's Child Psychology
The ideal image of a tough man in a woman's mind, such as Takakura, has taught men not to shed tears lightly. Therefore, men have developed a habit of denying their emotions since childhood - knocking out their teeth and swallowing them into their stomachs, revealing too much childlike affection is a sign of weakness. If Japanese people experience business failures or the dissolution of the Australian cabinet and cry, it must be the headline news that immediately appears in the newspaper. Do you know? Therefore, more men suffer from depression than women, and the suicide rate is even higher than women.
Every man has a Oedipus complex more or less, especially those men who lacked maternal love when they were young. They often nestle in the arms of their beloved women in the dead of night. Of course, this complex will not spread everywhere. The woman in front of him must be the woman he loves and trusts most, because he will feel safe only in front of his beloved woman.
For many men, things are their heartstrings. If you love them, in life, you must respect them and it's best to avoid touching the hearts of men.
