Many couples have sex when they are not married, and premarital sex is detrimental to both psychology and marriage. Many people have sex with each other with the attitude of getting married in the future, but in their daily relationships, they find that there are some areas where they are not suitable, but because they already have a real relationship, they can make ends meet. So what are the disadvantages of premarital sex?
No. 1 Premarital sex is illegal
In our country, sexual life is the legal right of a husband and wife, and it is an important part of their life. It must be protected by law, and it cannot happen casually between any man and woman.
No. 2 Premarital sex can easily cause frustration
The future of love can be divided into two parts, one is that a lover will eventually get married, or the other is that there is no chance to part ways. If a sexual relationship occurs, once one partner likes the new and dislikes the old, seeks new love, or breaks up for some other reason, it can cause serious setbacks and blows to the other party. For young women, it will bring greater pain.
No. 3 Premarital sex may cause unhappiness in married life
Some men have sex with girls without registering for marriage, with the idea that they will be married anyway. However, after the incident, the girl's faults gradually revealed, and the young man felt dissatisfied. However, "raw rice became cooked rice," and it was too late to regret it, so he had to reluctantly marry. Similarly, some girls yield recklessly under the sweet words of men, and although they feel that the other party is not ideal over time, in order to take into account their reputation, they have to compromise and reluctantly combine. This kind of marriage without foundation is not happy.
No. 4 Premarital sexual behavior can cause psychological imbalance between both parties
The parties often engage in sexual activity in a state of tension and compulsion. In addition, in most cases, young men lack the necessary sexual knowledge, so it is difficult to talk about a happy and harmonious sexual life. Not only can it lead to a decrease in the enjoyment of sexual life on the night of marriage, but it can also cause some girls to have abnormal views on sexual life, such as thinking that sexual life is painful, unclean, and unhappy, while generating feelings of boredom, hatred, and fear towards sexual life, resulting in sexual apathy, affecting the normal sexual life after marriage. "If you accidentally become pregnant, it will put both parties in an embarrassing situation. Although early abortion is safe, it can bring physical and mental pain and loss to the girl, and some dangerous complications can also occur as a result.".