Post Date December, 02 2023
Have you ever considered why you become a leftover woman? There are many reasons for you to become a leftover woman, but you should learn to find reasons from yourself to solve problems and harvest your own happiness. Generally speaking, leftover women are mainly women with high vision, which leads to the situation that high is not high, low is not low. This is to objectively understand themselves, find their own problems, and make themselves better, rather than live in a dream.
1. Narcissistic psychology
Of course, there are some older girls who think they are the best and can't see their shortcomings, but it is also because of her narcissism that she is not liked
2. Random psychology
Talk about one, play one, play one, and scatter one. If you treat love as a game, treat each other as a monkey, and do not respect love and the result of each other, you will be abandoned by love and the other party
3. Passive psychology
Closed in their own small circle, they dare not go out boldly. The number of contacts is very limited. The number of objects they can choose is getting smaller and smaller, and the scope of their choice is getting smaller and smaller. Only when you go out bravely can you discover Xintiandi
4. Phobia
Have you ever considered why you become a leftover girl? Once bitten by a snake, you will be afraid of the rope for ten years. I can't believe feelings, especially love, because I have been hurt. Remember, love is illusory and easy to change, but not all people are love cheats. When fate comes, the person you hit comes, and true love comes
5. Perfect psychology
Some older young women are looking for objects according to the pattern in movies and TV dramas or textbooks when choosing objects. This is not looking for objects. This is looking for idols. You know, idols can't live. Living with idols really makes you sick
6. Make do with psychology
Due to the delay in finding the right person, many older young women, from one extreme to the other, have the mentality of randomly finding a suitable one under the pressure of all aspects. This is not only responsible for their own, but also for the other half. Many people are unhappy in such a makeshift marriage
7. Rebellious psychology
They idealize love and lack a sense of reality. They always hope that their love is as romantic as that described in the novel; Love at first sight, the flower of love suddenly and miraculously shines. It should be noted that marriage is to live a real life and choose a spouse down-to-earth. Why waste youth in dreams
8. Closed mind
Many older girls are not sociable, unwilling to take an active attitude towards marriage, and like to be alone. The consequence of this is that the social circle is too small, reducing their opportunities to choose a mate
Their attitude of waiting for the volunteers to take the bait will only make them more "noble", and also make a considerable number of men who are interested in them flinch. What's more, marriage is a two-way choice. If you hold still, the two-way becomes a one-way choice. Isn't it half the chance at once
9. Inferiority complex
This kind of women think that it is a disgraceful thing to stay in the boudoir alone after the age of 30, so they are most afraid of others talking about marriage, and most afraid of others asking about their marriage in a caring tone, and are pessimistic and disappointed with themselves, thinking that love will never come again, so they have no chance with love. They either gradually close their hearts and do not pursue, even if the true man comes, they will "knock ten times and nine times"; Or go to the other extreme, succumb to the pressure and influence of society, parents and friends, take the approach of following the crowd, and hastily find an object to make ends meet
Living in society, we should learn to grow and love should also learn. Most women want to find their partner and have high requirements for the other half. But when they fall in love, these things will not exist. The key is to dare to take the step of confession, take the initiative when meeting the person they like, but pay attention to self-love at the same time. Have you considered why you become a leftover girl, change yourself and harvest happiness.
