In real life, often in work, men do not like women to intervene or listen to politics. If you insist on intervening, it is not a pleasant thing for all men. Men like to play with same-sex friends, but they also do not like women to intervene because they know that "love is more important". Therefore, the wise choice for women is to let them go crazy and not bother to manage.
Where are men's psychological 'seven inches'
Men have more face than anything else. Men are almost always living on their own, so their hearts are tired. A man doesn't flick his tears lightly, knocks out his teeth and swallows them in his stomach. This is the tragedy of men, who dare not admit their cowardice, fear of pain, and various so-called "feminized psychological needs". In fact, men and women were originally a mixture, but later people formalized and absolutized men and women, as if men meant masculinity, not crying, pragmatism, carelessness, and lack of grooming
In fact, it's not the case. Men also have many unknown 'feminization psychological needs', but these are secrets that only do not say, and women cannot open up and see the truth. If there is a space to freely release and open up the dusty soul, let's take a look at men's fatal weakness, which is their "seven inches":
1: Vanity
It's difficult to make more money in one's pocket, but it's much easier to make oneself look like a wealthy person. A man's financial situation is a personal secret. It's best for women to ask less, because in their minds, a man's wallet determines his charm and ability, which is very subtle and cannot be easily solved.
2: Weakness
Men also have a weak side, but this cannot be openly disclosed. Before the fight, pretending to roll up my sleeves was actually hiding my weakness and unease, but my mouth was so hard that I said, 'Who's afraid of who?'
3: Stinky beauty
A thoughtful person once conducted a test by placing a large mirror at a corner of a shopping mall to see who would prefer to stay and organize in front of the mirror, as seen by the men and women passing by. The result was surprising, with male peacocks preferring beauty, and almost every man would "secretly" comb their clothes after passing by the mirror. But in public, men generally refuse to admit their love of dressing up even after death, which is also a "secret" of men.
4: Childish temperament
There are many childish men in Jin Yong's works, and he is a discerning person. But female celebrities only like to marry mature men. Because of its stability and reliability, the rational light can not only be used for illumination, but is also more suitable for heating. However, men actually have mischievous and innocent needs in their hearts, which sometimes unconsciously manifest. It may seem like mischievous, but it is actually coquettish, but it is not suitable for large-scale development, and ultimately precipitates into a "secret".
5: Who to socialize with
There is a "meeting bar" with booming business because it is the best place for men. Once a wife calls and asks, "Where is it?" A man who is drinking heavily can confidently answer, "In a 'meeting'!" Men like to play with same-sex friends and do not like women to intervene because they know that 'love is more important'. Therefore, a wise choice for women is to let him go crazy and not bother to manage.