People often ask why their marriage is always unhappy. People say, "To get married is to go to the grave, and not to get married is to die without a burial place." So, after marriage, is it necessarily happy? I'm afraid that's not the case in fact. Next, let's take a look at the main reasons why marriage is in crisis and the red light is on.
Marry prematurely
Due to early marriage, I have no understanding of fulfilling my responsibilities and obligations, and I naturally lack a certain level of living ability, experience, and correct outlook on life, values, and love. As I age, broaden my horizons, and enrich my experience, this type of love is the most resistant to wind and rain. With a little temptation, extramarital love can occur.
Flash marriage
"After a flash marriage, it is like a businessman discovering an opportunity to quickly make a fortune, without careful consideration, without investigating the market situation, and completely relying on his own subjective assumptions to make venture capital investments. Undoubtedly, the probability of such a business failure is predictable, as is the case with marriage. A person who can flash marriage must have not undergone careful consideration, or have considered deeply but have not looked into the long term,", The probability of extramarital affairs in such marriages is also very high.
Sexual disharmony
Why is it always said that the family has already existed in name only? Its essence is the disharmony of sexual life, because the harmonious relationship between husband and wife directly affects this extramarital love. Although today's people's concept of gender has undergone significant changes, excluding the material standard of living, they also have higher and higher requirements for the quality of sexual life, or attach greater importance to sex. As long as the other party is unable to meet their physiological needs, it is naturally a time for one party to "hire someone else".
It is not difficult to find that extramarital love is the main cause of marital crisis. If we want to maintain a stable, peaceful, and optimistic world in subsequent marriages, we need to make changes to these disharmonious marital lives mentioned above. We believe that everyone's efforts can definitely be rewarded, so let's cheer up.