Gender Marriage: Revealing the Root Cause of Women's Unhappiness
Smart and beautiful host Li Jing also had panic experiences before she married at the age of 33. She said that before the age of 30, there were many suitors, and the phone rang continuously every day. However, after my 30th birthday, I was surprised to find that the number of phone calls inviting me to go out has significantly decreased, and the frequency of staying at home alone and watching TV at night is becoming higher and higher. At first, she was not impressed and thought to herself, "I'm so beautiful, it's definitely not my turn if no one is chasing me!"! But as the days gradually drifted away, the proud woman finally sensed something strange. So one day she mentally told herself, "I can't let myself ruin myself!"!
"When I listen to them, my eyes no longer shine as brightly as they did when I was young," she awakened to the fact that she was no longer as popular with boys as before
Li Jing said that when she found herself in her 20s, as long as she heard a boy brag, she would listen attentively and attentively with her big black and white eyes open, making a man proud of being able to impress the beautiful woman. However, as soon as she turns 30, has a successful career and life experience, as long as she sees a man in a suit and shoes trying to brag in front of her, she can immediately determine whether the man's money is his own or a loan; Is his company a sole proprietorship or a partnership.
Hehe! Although this metaphor is a joke spoken by the clever Li Jing, it is not unreasonable to understand the difficulties faced by older women with life experience and judgment in the face of love - we are no longer as easily pleased as we were when we were young!
Later, after awakening, Li Jing corrected her "shortcomings" of being too smart and too cold and quiet, trying to feel love with a simpler heart rather than decode it. As a result, at the age of 33, she met Mr. Right in her life, had a lovely daughter, and achieved a happy family. After all, she did not let herself ruin herself.
Enjoy "Older Love"
Many past people have admitted that the love they had when they were in college was the most sincere and touching, because at that time, both of them had simple hearts and didn't compare weights. As long as they felt like lightning, they fell in love, regardless of whether he or she met the conditions for marriage. Therefore, in a pure psychological environment, it is only necessary to feel whether love is still hot, without too many other factors to consider.
However, once we enter the so-called marriageable age, there is inevitably a sense of "risk assessment" when we encounter love again. We will calculate whether this love will lead to marriage, and how much is it worth investing? If I fail, what will I lose? If I succeed, what will I get? Therefore, we often hear the most common and unrestrained conclusion drawn by women of marriageable age: "If you don't marry well, why bother yourself?"
Facing love with a calm and rational attitude is not entirely impossible. In fact, in some cases, this cautious attitude is indeed a kind of protection for oneself. However, once there is too much rational thinking about love, it is difficult to appreciate its delicate sweetness and palpitations that affect the heart. The most worrying thing is that when there is tension in the relationship that needs to be tempered, if there is not enough "madness" to support, lubricate, and tolerate it, the emotions constructed solely by rational thinking can easily become weak and unsustainable.
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