Post Date December, 03 2023
"Business and family, too much pressure makes me unwilling to face the reality of being over 30."
This is a kind of escapist psychology. Middle-aged people are under great pressure in society. They often fantasize about leaving the competitive workplace and crying babies, returning to childhood, or returning to a quiet mountain village. But reality is reality after all. Where can people escape? So middle-aged white-collar workers had to fall into a strange circle of depression and depression. To deal with this situation, Swiss psychologist Jung believes that people should readjust their direction after middle age, gradually focus on their own mind instead of their own things, and gradually understand the wisdom of life, so as to reduce psychological pressure and successfully overcome the "mid-year crisis".
"If you haven't made any achievements at the age of 30, you won't be successful in your future life."
Human intelligence is divided into fluid intelligence and crystal intelligence. Fluid intelligence will decline with age, but crystal intelligence will also improve with the accumulation of experience even in old age. Many people are "late bloomers" type. As long as you give yourself the opportunity, you will not defeat yourself. Plus the experience and life experience of middle-aged people, even if you are past middle age, you still have the chance to succeed.
"I'm not afraid of getting older. Look at those employers who want young people."
This may be a social phenomenon, because young employees do not have too many problems such as health care and retirement insurance, which can save money. But as mentioned earlier, success is possible at any age. Taking social problems as an excuse, you may subconsciously want to find excuses for yourself and find a reasonable reason. White-collar workers need to face up to the problem of age, and can not always use some rationalization to find reasons for their escape.
"You entered the wrong line when you were young. You can't change it when you are 30."
Career maturity is a concept that includes career knowledge, career attitude, career decision-making and career planning. Before young people have formed a good understanding and attitude towards a career, blindly following the crowd may cause many troubles after taking office. If you really can't adapt to your original occupation, you can still change careers after you are 30 years old. However, it should be carefully considered. It is better to transfer to industries related to your original occupation to reduce risks.
As time goes by, you are still young, beautiful and energetic like living in a fresh-keeping box. This is what women dream of. Recently, Elleny, a clinical assistant professor of psychology at Harvard Medical School in the United States. Rosovsky pointed out that as long as we change some "small" habits, we can easily "stay young forever".
