Post Date December, 03 2023
In reality, many men and women feel very happy when they first fall in love, and after entering marriage, various conflicts will erupt between the couple. If two people have stronger personalities, they will argue more and more fiercely, leading to many couples experiencing a "cold war". So, how should couples get along in life?
Secret 1: Learn to give
I have a male friend who has a very attentive wife. Every time during holidays or on his birthday, he brings him surprises or "magical" birthday gifts. Every time, this male friend feels very happy, but he has never bought a gift for his wife in all these years of marriage, which makes his wife feel very disappointed. In fact, he only enjoys the feeling of being "loved", but does not know how to give the other person "love", which is selfish. In marital life, 'you have me, I have you' is the highest level of marital life.
Secret 2: Maintain Independence
Husband and wife are independent individuals and have one-on-one freedom. Don't think about how to change each other, don't think about letting each other accompany you all day, and don't be paranoid about thinking 'you are mine'. This will turn your love nest into a cage that traps each other. So, couples should adjust each other to a moderate space, both staying together and being alone with each other. In the soil of marriage, allowing two personality trees to grow freely can naturally yield the fruits of happiness.
Secret Three: Mutual Love
Every man and woman has the need to love and be loved. The mutual love between husband and wife is revealed in the details of life. When he comes back from work, you pour him a cup of hot water; When she is too tired to lie down on the sofa and fall asleep, you cover her with a blanket, and every bit of warmth will make her feel that by gathering these little bits of love together, couples can hold hands more happily until they grow old.
Secret 4: Cherish each other
In reality, many people wait until they lose before they know how to cherish. Especially men, they believe that if they marry their wife into the house, it belongs to them. Therefore, sometimes they don't know how to cherish their wife, such as asking her to do daily chores like a nanny, or yelling at her for not cooking well, or taking offense at her when encountering unpleasant things outside the house. There are many such men in life. Perhaps at first, the wife can tolerate it, but gradually they will distance themselves from you, Until I leave this home.
So, whether it's wife to husband or husband to wife, we must understand how to love and care for each other, so that our hearts can get closer together.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
