Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage is like a high-speed machine that requires maintenance and compensatory time off. The lack of these things can lead to cracks in the marriage, until it stops working, and the relationship between the couple will also turn upside down. Therefore, providing insurance for marital life is a very important job.
Not seeking the best
Only by not seeking the best can one truly love someone. There can never be the best thing in the world, let alone how can love, a highly subjective emotion, be measured by any standard? Every person who gets married or is about to get married should understand the principle of 'three thousand weak waters, take only one ladle'.
The true meaning of marriage choices should be when deciding to get married, knowing that there is a high possibility of a better person appearing. However, at this moment and in this lifetime, I have chosen you. Only by not seeking the best can one calmly and confidently accept the one they love. This kind of love is plain and profound, simple and pure, peaceful and distant. This kind of love will accompany you through the storms of your life Five Standards for Harmonious Sexual Life between Couples
Family integrity
What is the atmosphere at home? Since we love each other, love is our common spirit. Forgiveness, forgiveness, tolerance, and encouragement are the eternal spirit of a family. Some couples who have entered the marital siege may not give in to each other after disagreeing on some minor matters. Therefore, men and women who believe in the belief that "starving to death is small, and misconduct is big" often use excessive "self-esteem" to protect themselves, leading to endless arguments, confrontations, and battles. In fact, since we can take a step back from others, why can't we "condescend" in our family?
Learn to appreciate
People who love each other can only love for a long time by learning to appreciate. Learning to appreciate is an art of love. A mountain peak can be seen as a peak on either side, with different heights and distances. For a loved one, it is also important to learn to appreciate from multiple perspectives. Appreciating the other person is largely a taste for details. After all, there are only a few earthshaking relationships between couples, but more of them are ordinary lives. This requires us to savor and appreciate with heart, perhaps you will experience the deep affection of your husband from a small accessory he bought for you; Perhaps you will read her concern in her eyes.
Improve oneself
Everyone hopes to give others a good impression. So why not give your lover a pleasing feeling? Create the conditions as much as possible to truly become the "beauty" in the eyes of the other party. Improving oneself is improving marriage.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
