There are always ups and downs in marriage, and it takes some effort to manage it if you want to keep it happy. Leaving aside how to promote a happy marriage, the first thing couples need to do is how to eliminate bad habits in their marriage, first "checking for leaks" and then "filling in gaps.".
Money represents status
Whoever is rich is the boss. Unconditionally let the other party obey your hegemonic attention. If this happens in the marriage and family, the resentment of the other party will increase. When it erupts, it will definitely be irreconcilable. Therefore, the hegemony between husband and wife must be measured, so as not to harm each other's harmony.
Modelization of family division of labor
Not every family is dominated by men, but by women. Therefore, do not impose the marriage model of others on your own marriage. Only if the division of labor is clear and based on the advantages of both parties, will it be good. Only in this way can we have vitality and prosperity. What about housewives and men? Just be happy.>> The three most hurtful words between husband and wife
There is a gap between the two families
People should learn to think of their origins through drinking water. Every child is brought up by their parents, and marriage brings together two different families. Therefore, it is important not to be too selfish. Your parents are parents, and so are others. Do not divide your parents-in-law family too clearly. When couples encounter conflicts due to etiquette, you must learn to empathize and empathize with each other. Whether it's your mother's family or your husband's family, you must do your best when things happen. In this way, the relationship between husband and wife can be led into a virtuous chain.
No home at night
Home is not just about eating, sleeping, and playing peas. Perhaps, you are busy, you have many friends, and you have many social engagements. However, you must remember that there is also a person at home who is waiting for you to come home with a light on. Therefore, when you do anything, you must have a tolerance and be homesick, because this is your ultimate harbor.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)