Flash marriage is only chosen for nationality, be cautious when choosing flash marriage

According to British media reports, a 38 year old woman named Michelle in the UK was abandoned by her newly married husband less than 24 hours ago. And this husband from Gambia married him only to obtain British citizenship. What is even more shocking is that this man has already married and even had a child in his hometown.

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One day after the flash marriage, the divorce

According to the report, Michelle and her husband fell in love when they first met and soon decided to get married. Michelle stated that her husband is gentle, quiet, very compassionate, and charming.

But just the morning after the two got married, the husband left home. Her husband's strange behavior made Michelle suspicious. She immediately followed her husband out, only to find him looking for another woman.

It is reported that the husband later confessed to Michelle that this woman was his cousin. But Michelle, who was skeptical, checked the social pages of her husband and his friends. I found that there were intimate photos of my husband and this so-called "cousin" in his friend's photo album. There is also a photo of the husband holding the baby, and a friend congratulates him on having a child under the photo.

Michelle's husband had to admit in the face of hard evidence that his "cousin" was actually his wife in the Gambia, and the children were also their own. He only married Michelle to obtain British citizenship. Angry Michelle subsequently divorced her husband who had just been married for less than 24 hours. Michelle stated that she was blinded by love and recklessly married this man in a flash.

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Be cautious when choosing 'flash marriage'

After several days or even shorter contact, both men and women "feel good", and their feelings quickly heated up. Soon, they completed a series of emotional and legal procedures, and walked into the sacred palace of marriage hand in hand. Subsequently, she faced various contradictions and troubles... Although the events that happened to Michelle were quite dramatic, marriage was not a joke, and experts believe that "flash marriage" should be treated with caution.

Professor Peng Fei, an expert in marriage psychology, expressed his concern about the phenomenon of "flash marriage" in an interview with a reporter: "For the post-80s generation, fostering a sense of responsibility may be the most important lesson. Flash marriage, high divorce demography and other media concerns in recent years are more or less related to the lack of rationality in making friends and no real understanding of each other."

Some people say that the main advantages of flash marriage are: low cost of marriage and love; Marriage and love sprint fast; Fewer branches with changes; Complies with the rules of free marriage and divorce autonomy; Conforming to the emotional concept of love at first sight, daring to love and act, and love being the heartbeat; Divorcing after marriage is more moral and human than not loving to endure hardship until old age; Flash marriage is a rebellion and subversion against traditional long-distance marathons or proven love, and is a symbol of advanced modern and efficient marriage culture.

However, marriage is not just a child's play, it is a matter of long-term and even lifelong happiness for both men and women. There is a reasonable process to have a clear and correct understanding of people and things, and the phenomenon of flash marriage precisely overlooks this important process. Without the cognitive period of value orientation, personality blending, thinking mode, and lifestyle adjustment in love, marriage, and family, both parties quickly fall into impulsive and blind marriage. Most of them will experience the intense friction, vibration, and even separation of marriage and family, brewing the bitter wine of marriage and family misfortune. A sudden heartbeat brings lifelong distress.