Post Date December, 03 2023
Nowadays, cohabitation before marriage is the norm. If two people are socializing on the premise of marriage, then cohabitation is equivalent to trial marriage. Such cohabitation is related to future happiness. When cohabiting, the most important thing to do is to pay attention to some details and avoid marrying the wrong person in the future.
1. Both parents
If his parents still treat him as a child and hope that you can coax him like him, and he also enjoys the treatment of being a son, but your maternal nature is not so strong, which will cause a lot of friction in the future; If the parents of both parties do not get along well, it will be difficult to achieve even superficial harmony, which will also become a problem; If you don't like his parents, or if he doesn't like your parents, it will also become a hidden danger to future happiness.
2. How to Spend a Rest Day
If you love to sleep in on your days off, he prefers to wake up early and tidy up the house, and he still insists on getting you into a fight, which is inevitable. Only parents can tolerate the friction caused by differences in wake-up times; On the other hand, if the other party is indecisive and always unable to make up their minds, what they do together on weekends, or on the contrary, always making rough decisions about what to do, it can lead to unhappiness.
But this is relatively easy to solve. Both parties can make a rule, such as Saturday is the female birthday, Sunday is the male birthday, and girls' day should prioritize girls, and everything should be according to the girls' preferences. vice versa.
3. Can consensus be reached in discussions about children
Before marriage, it is important to delve deeply and repeatedly discuss this topic, so as to know if the other party's ideas are in line with their overall direction. For example, whether one wants children or not; One hopes for cramming education, the other hopes for developing individuality, and so on.
4. The Way to Use Money
One saving, one waste, for example, when receiving a monthly water and electricity bill, the party who may save will complain:
Why always forget to turn off the lights? Why is the water always on when brushing teeth? One person likes it and buys it, while the other always buys cheap goods... Differences in money usage and buying methods actually involve differences in the overall values.
5. Family affairs
In fact, it not only includes the question of who should do how much household chores, but also some trivial matters that need to be paid attention to: for example, a person who likes to litter, and a clothes hanger hanging at the same distance from each other; One loves to keep everything, while the other treats it like garbage after reading a magazine; Even the difference between squeezing toothpaste and making a big deal out of small details often becomes the trigger for a big argument.
Other life details that need attention include: TV remote control; Diet (noise during meals; excessive drinking; whether to continue eating or pouring out overnight dishes...); Especially now that there are more and more people buying cars, a new question arises: Does he always guide (verbose) from the side when you are driving? He always asks you to drive according to his route? It seems that men who learn to remain silent within are becoming increasingly rare nowadays.
