Post Date December, 03 2023
Make yourself a "fate friendly person"
Whether active or passive, making yourself look like a person who is easy to get close to and willing to make friends is the primary key to success. Research in social psychology has found that those who smile, are willing to make eye contact, and integrate body language into the surrounding environment will spread the invincible charm of "predestined friendly people". Therefore, you should take the initiative to have eye contact with others, and nod gently when the four eyes meet to convey respect and friendliness. If everyone has a glass of wine at the party, you can never leave your hands empty. If there is music, your body should dance with it. In this way, those who are interested in you and those who have something in your heart will be happy to be close to you.
Look for clues from the environment and speak gracefully
If you go straight ahead and say, "I like you very much, can I know you?" If you are lucky, you will win the lottery, but more often, you will ask for trouble because you scare people, hehe! The best way is to find clues from the environment, so that your mouth is generous and not abrupt. For example, in the supermarket, you can ask: "Do you know the product of this brand?" In the library, you can say: "I also like the book you borrowed." In the coffee shop, you can say this: "I'm here for the first time, are you too?" If you can politely add a sentence before opening your mouth: "I'm sorry to bother you, excuse me...", it will be more pleasing!
Praise women's temperament and affirm men's ability
Some men say to women, "You are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen..." This kind of direct praise sometimes makes people wary. If you want to praise the other person, the better way to do it is to focus on her temperament: "I appreciate a quiet (generous) and elegant girl like you..." And women should take the initiative to meet men. From the perspective of help, it is often easy to get a positive response: "My mobile phone is out of order (or my laptop is out of order), can you help me see it?" Give men the opportunity to show their ability, and they usually enjoy it. Women should praise men in a roundabout way. When a man provides considerate services for you (such as helping you get a drink), the best compliment is not: "Wow, how thoughtful you are!" The wiser response is: "Do you know? I appreciate considerate men!" Such a statement, the other party knows well, but not too explicit. Next, it is appropriate to advance and retreat. If your husband doesn't mean it, you won't be embarrassed.
Strike quietly
If you see the person you like, but it is not appropriate to speak directly, you can first find a person of the same sex with you, talk and increase the volume (hey, make sure he/she can hear you!): "Hi, hello! I'm so-and-so, are you coming alone?" To start the conversation, after a few words, you can inadvertently turn to the opposite sex who is targeted by you, Invite him/her to join your conversation: "Hey, what about you? How do you know who and who?" When we are invited to join a conversation that has already been held without being deliberately accosted, we are usually willing to participate. So, go to a party and find a partner of the same sex, you can play the role of this practice. However, remember that when the conversation is getting better, the partner should find a reason to disappear, so as to create an opportunity for you to have a deep chat alone.
Create opportunities to meet again
Don't forget to derive the growing interaction from today's first marriage. The natural way is to talk about the common hobbies of two people. You can say: "That's great. I have a group of friends who are movie fans. Let's call you when we watch the movie next time!" Use this very casual way to say: "Please leave a contact information, and I will find you next time!" Or simply and generously say: "I am very happy to chat with you today, and I will exchange ideas next time when I have time!"
