1、 "I'm not fighting so hard for you and this family."
If a man says this with an appropriate expression, his emotional level will not be less than that of any Qiongyao film, but you should not be in a hurry to burst into tears. A man's struggle is first for himself - to eat, drink and play like the successful men around him, which is the continuous power of a man's struggle. The purpose of a man's saying this is to escape the housework, find an excuse for staying at home at night, and let you give up your career and be the woman behind him wholeheartedly. Whether he can fulfill his promise after success depends entirely on his conscience. A man with good conscience can still give you luxury, but don't expect his love for you to remain the same; If you have a bad conscience, divorce. He won't miss you as a family nanny. Nowadays, the rich families resent their wives.
2、 "You think I like entertainment, but I can't help it for my career."
Myth, new and bad men like social entertainment and are good at social entertainment. Social entertainment is a decent cover, and many ambiguous activities are therefore logical. They can do a lot of absurd things without leaving any trace. They play the role of the wind and moon, enjoy it, and then make innocent and grievance statements in front of the aggrieved women, saying that he is really tired of social entertainment, but people in the Jianghu can not help themselves. In fact, what he was planning in his mind was: I heard that the new ladies from the A Lounge were good, so I asked some friends to go to the meeting this evening.
3、 "I will make you happy and happy all your life"
When men say this, they are either drunk or overwhelmed by the current happiness. If you can't let him continue to be happy and happy, and even become a burden to him, he can't wait to shake you off as soon as he can shake off the gum stuck on his hand, When you say with joy and shame, "Honey, let's get married." The man will refuse: "You see, I want a career but I don't want a career, I want money and I don't have money. I'm worried about letting you marry me like this." "New and bad men" are very good at making and enjoying all kinds of fun in life, but they don't want to bear the responsibilities and consequences associated with it. Just like some wandering stars, they like to count the entrance fees, but don't have the habit of actively paying taxes.
4、 "I will make our life full of romance forever"
It is certain that the man who said this is in love or has not been married for five years. The "new bad man" is a master of romance. It is fun to talk with such a man, but the man's romance will wither with a wedding letter. On Valentine's Day in the first year of marriage, he will invite you out to eat candlelight western food; The next year, he will also remember to bring a bunch of roses home; In the third year, he will be patient to accompany you to have a meal at home. Don't count on roses. He said, "Ten yuan a piece is not as good as a whole roast duck." In the fourth year, I don't know where he went to fool around.
5、 "I am a man who knows how to live"
New and bad men will cook good dishes during their honeymoon, make breakfast for you in a variety of ways, take care of household chores at a first-class level, and make their childhood colorful. However, with the end of the honeymoon period, men's interest will shift from the kitchen table to the mahjong table or television. If you complain when you are tired of housework and have leg pain, he will rightfully retort: "Why don't women do this?"