Chinese women are generally not as straightforward as Western women in expressing their needs. As a significant other, it is necessary to learn to observe the needs of their partners. However, Chinese women are more reserved and sometimes tend to suppress themselves and dare not express their feelings. As a result, they distort and transform it into negative emotions or states such as lack of open flame and nagging. Men themselves are careless and often do not understand these special "secret signals", which ultimately affects the quality of marriage. Experts remind that as a husband, one should pay more attention and even think more about the "crooked" aspects.
Code One: No Open Flame
If your wife loses her temper inexplicably, throws things jingling, or forcefully closes the door, you need to review it. How long has it been since you "bothered" her. What is' contentment '? Contentment is happiness and peace of mind. However, now that she is unhappy and restless, it indicates that you are somewhat distant from her body. Her body is protesting, but in fact, she cannot control herself.
Countermeasure: Tonight, you need to comfort her well. In ancient palaces, there were many struggles and conspiracies because there were too many women and the emperor couldn't be busy alone. Men were the best tool for women to extinguish the fire.
Code Two: Deliberate Virtue
This is a form of forbearance, the eve of a volcanic eruption, so you need to respond quickly, otherwise you will bear the consequences. Her low profile and diligence are meant to impress you and make you "reward" her.
Countermeasure: The simplest way is to hold her from behind while she is washing her hands, and whisper or say something disgusting in her ear. Don't be stingy with your praise or some "vulgar" words, then your "evil" is her nectar.
Secret Code Three: Playing coquettish
Perhaps she was not good at playing coquettish before, but suddenly one day, she pestered you to buy children's food to eat, or started talking in childish language, or liked to make a fuss, as if everything had to depend on you and stick to you.
Countermeasure: In fact, she has already hinted to you that she needs your embrace, just like treating a child. She has no defenses, and she only needs you to drive in.
Code Four: More Little Actions
Pinch you, hit you, harass you, touch you... Your skin is clearly in a "hungry" state. Women breathe through their skin. How long have you not touched her? Touching can be physical activity, as well as verbal touch.
Countermeasure: Give her a positive compliment, then grab her restless hand, place it on her lips, kiss, power on, and then feel each other's emotions. There are no truly barbaric women in the world, only women who are ignored by men.
Secret code five: inexplicable discomfort in the body
I always say I'm not feeling well, but I don't want to see a doctor. This is a woman waiting for her husband's comfort and tenderness. This is a type of 'emotional pain', commonly seen in sensitive areas such as the waist, shoulders, and chest.
Countermeasure: At this time, the husband should take some time to surround his wife and ask for warmth. It's best to hug her, kiss her hair, and say some love words