Post Date December, 02 2023
Every era pays attention to family and prosperity, and husband and wife are the foundation of the family. Their feelings, relationships, and quality of life determine the development direction of a family. In this new century, the relationship between husband and wife is very problematic, but there are also some loving couples who want to grow old together. What can they do?
Pursue the cause together
Love is the driving force of career, and career is the sublimation of love. There are not many people who want their lovers to be strong, but anyone who has a sense of responsibility to the society wants their lovers to pay attention to the society, have a strong sense of career, and have a continuous pursuit of career. But after marriage, the husband and wife love each other all day long and close themselves in a small circle of personal family. The temperature of love is difficult to last.
Find new fun
In addition to work, study and housework, couples should try to add some new content to their family life and create a good environment for developing their feelings; For example, for weekend activities, you can choose and cultivate a hobby that couples share. This will help reduce the feeling of monotony.
Pay attention to emotional communication between husband and wife
Praise the other party, affirm or remind the other party. A look of approval, a smile of relief, and a warm praise will make the other party intoxicated. When you go out and come back, or take advantage of the other party's birthday, you send a small gift, which will cause ripples of love in your lover's heart; Before and after going to work, a warm farewell and a kind greeting will make the other party feel his or her position in his or her heart and produce a sense of satisfaction.
Leave room for your lover
The combination of husband and wife is the combination of feelings and life, not the dissolution of personality and personality, and both parties are not the shadow of each other, so don't be forced to be inseparable. Otherwise, just as constant eating will make people lose their appetite, sticking together will also make people lose their appetite. The relationship between men and women has only part in common. Both sides can have their own friends and hobbies, and can have more topics. Only when we are apart can we miss each other. Give each other a distance and a space to yearn and wait with tenderness. In a sense, there is no freedom without distance, and there is no attraction without distance. The spacing of time and space often increases the intensity of love.
More humor
Only by being considerate can we promote mutual love. In the face of complicated social life, especially the trivial things such as pots and pans in family life, sometimes it really needs more courage to bear difficulties and the ability to control life. Humor in the family can relieve psychological pressure, especially the humorous language in the couple's life, which can often arouse emotional waves. Because humor is a symbol of perseverance, calm, intelligence and ability, and a mediator of family conflicts.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
