Post Date April, 15 2023
Many men think that women nowadays are too realistic. They don't want a house, they want a car, and they even need to save money. In fact, women don't want these things. They want a sense of security. It is because many married men's behaviors give women a sense of insecurity that they ask for these things before marriage.
In fact, these behaviors of men after marriage appear because they don't know how to get along with each other, not because they don't care about this woman. Now let's see what invisible killers are destroying your marriage.
No longer make women happy
Before marriage, they are always at the side of women. They prepare for their own women. Even when they are on the bus, they fight with others for a seat, and even hold hands when crossing the road. But when a man gets married, he is completely indifferent. If he doesn't have a seat, he can't even look at his wife. How can he not make her sad. Women need to be coaxed no matter how old they are.
No longer accompany shopping
When you are in love, you always stick it on a woman like a dog's skin plaster, and you can't shake it off. Even when women go shopping, they will actively follow, and even women go to the underwear store to buy the most popular underwear, so they should not be shy after marriage. But the married man has made a 180 degree turn. When shopping together, he vowed not to go to the lingerie shop, and blamed the woman for not being sensible. When a woman wants to pay for two people's interests, she will be cold sooner or later.
Don't let her exercise any more
Before marriage, he is an expert who knows how to keep fit. He takes the health of his girlfriend more important than anything else. He doesn't even allow women to work overtime. He also gives women a midnight snack at night. However, the married man has completely forgotten the importance of health. It is not enough to breed a swimming circle at home, but also to restrict his wife's freedom, not let her go to the fitness club, just let her do housework at home. The beauty of a woman is not for herself. A man who doesn't even understand this will leave him sooner or later.
No more romantic scenes
When a man is in love, in order to make his girlfriend happy, he will become quite humorous and will casually tell you that he is good to women. However, after marriage, she was no longer willing to focus her attention on women. After her husband went on a business trip, her wife hoped that he could think of herself. In the end, all she had to say was "Has the son finished his homework?" and she didn't care about her. Women can spoil men and love men. Why do men never think of their wives and their responsibilities?
No more caring
Before marriage, men always call women to tell them what to do. They are always not very comfortable with women's life. They can't wait to leave women's side and take care of women's daily life. However, after marriage, women are no longer warm and cold. Even after a woman is ill, she simply asks "Nothing serious?" and then there is no more. Such a man will be sad even if he is a woman.
Therefore, in marriage, both men and women must learn how to get along with each other, so that they will not think wildly because the other party does not do what they want, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of marriage.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
