As the saying goes, a gentleman does something and does nothing. When it comes to love, men should always be more unrestrained than women. If he thinks you are not suitable for him, he will slip away immediately.
To firmly grasp your love, women should be alert to themselves, and don't become these types that may make men refuse.
1、 Money worship
Money not only represents the possibility of meeting material requirements, but also represents a certain status or ability. Naturally, men with money have become the ideal goal of marriage. Now the cost of living is getting higher and higher, and this trend is becoming more and more obvious, which is called money worship.
Such a woman will not look at the poor, because her love is based on material satisfaction. She knows that it is easier to spend men's money than to earn money hard, which is the condition she chooses to associate with men. Men often feel that when they associate with her, there will always be a day when the golden mountains and silver mountains will be dug up. At that time, there will only be a situation where people and money will be lost.
2、 No ego
Such a woman may never take good care of herself. When a person who needs to take care of appears, she naturally puts all her attention on the other side and makes every effort to pay for the other side. Willing to accept and bear the blame and guilt in the emotional world anytime and anywhere.
Such women do not live for themselves, but for others; It is not so much a good girl who selflessly contributes as a love slave who loses herself.
However, marriage is an equal partnership, not a relationship between master and slave. Accompanied by a woman who has no self, men bear the heaviest and heaviest emotional burden. Unless it is a cruel man who can accept her "sacrifice" frankly. Otherwise, the man feels that once he leaves her for some reason, she may collapse because she cannot accept the reality.
3、 Feminism
In the eyes of women with the supremacy of feminism, men are not things at all. Her mouth and mouth are all critical of men's shortcomings. Don't expect her to be obedient. Only you can please her by acting like a bull. Unless you have the "advantages" that come and go immediately, you'd better run away.
I forgot how to be gentle in front of my beloved man. She is the center of everything, which is unacceptable to many men.
4、 No bottom line
Such women lack a sense of security, and they never know how to behave in moderation, nor can they be contented. Once she falls in love with someone, even if the other person doesn't belong to her, she won't give up. She will wait and work harder to do things that cross the bottom line.
Such women are more emotional when they do things, and will ignore the consequences because of their impulse, whether they are crazy shopping or extreme pursuit of enjoyment.
In marriage, we can't face the end of being abandoned. Even if the situation ends, we still want to keep men at all costs.
This woman's specialty is to cry, make trouble and hang herself. As long as the man slightly disappoints her, she will threaten to die. So when a man finds that a woman is full of nerves and is prone to be aggressive, he needs to be on guard against her out of control at any time. He only wants to quickly escape from this restless day.
5、 Easily emotional
It is not her fault to empathize with others, because she is born too emotional. The biggest characteristic of this kind of woman is not to give up any chance of love. All men who pursue her are attractive to her.
In her eyes, the peaceful life is too dull. She is more willing to conquer the turbulent days and the people who are difficult to control, and take all these as a kind of stimulation. Such women are easy to cheat in marriage, because they are not satisfied with the simple life together, but like to seek fresh and exciting again and again.
In the face of such a woman, a man would rather she never fell in love with herself than fall in love with others after falling in love with herself.