Post Date December, 03 2023
Sometimes when feelings are bad, you want to ask your friends of the opposite sex for their opinions. However, friends' opinions are often wrapped in goodwill. Let's listen to Arthur, the chief lecturer of AWE Emotion Studio, unlock the true meaning behind the opinions of friends of the opposite sex.
When our relationships are not going well, we often think about the reasons. When girls look in the mirror and find themselves not ugly, some people start asking their friends of the opposite sex for their opinions to see what the problem is.
But believe me, usually the opposite sex doesn't tell you the truth directly. Most of them are packaged. Below, I will unravel the true meaning behind the opinions of friends of the opposite sex.
1. You are too outgoing, boys will be afraid.
If you look good, it may indicate that a boy feels that you have too many friends of the opposite sex and are too fond of playing, and that he may not be able to control such a girl himself, so he chooses to give up; If you look ordinary, it is possible that your speech or behavior is too strong or subjective, making boys not know how to get along with you, and even feeling a bit tired and stressed when dealing with you.
2. You're too outgoing. Boys usually prefer to be quiet and have a good temperament.
This usually indicates that you are not feminine. If you are beautiful or have a good figure, boys will still treat you as the opposite sex, but they may not feel suitable for being a girlfriend because it does not meet the male projection of a girlfriend; If you look ordinary, you are likely to fall into a dilemma where boys don't even recognize you as the opposite sex. When men decide whether they are heterosexual or not, they have a certain relationship with whether they have sexual fantasies about the other person (of course, not everyone has sexual fantasies, but if it is absolutely impossible to have sexual fantasies about you, or if they accidentally have sexual fantasies about you, they will feel guilty, indicating that they do not consider you as heterosexual). Therefore, even if you have long hair and makeup, as long as your words and actions make people feel rude, lacking temperament, violent Being impatient makes it difficult to connect with women, and naturally it is not considered an object.
3. You are too lively and outgoing, and feel like many people are chasing you.
This may be the OS that your friend once had in his heart. He may have thought you wouldn't miss it, but later he gave up for some reason. When the person you like belongs to a more herbivorous group, or a less experienced, introverted, or shy type, this can become a fatal injury, especially if you do not give the other person a special green light, they are likely to presume that they have no opportunity, and then do nothing, or choose to only maintain a good friendship. If others have commented on you more than once and feel that many people are chasing you, don't doubt whether your emotional difficulties are due to your parents making you too ugly. Your appearance definitely has a basic threshold, and the rest of the reason is usually not due to your appearance, but rather to your mentality.
4. You're too noisy.
This sentence has no hidden meaning, just as it appears on the surface, but you can directly interpret it as a direct version of the second sentence pattern, which means that you are not feminine.
The above sentence patterns are easy for extroverted girls to encounter. In fact, as long as you can have a feminine personality, it doesn't matter whether you are introverted or extroverted. You don't have to simply correct your personality, as long as you make up for other lack of femininity, skills, and mindset. The issue of inward and outward orientation is like Hawaiian. Some people like it and others don't. No matter what personality you have, there will be a market for you, but the premise is that you must first be treated as an object by others.
