Post Date December, 03 2023
Spring is bright, and as the temperature rises, everyone takes off their heavy winter clothes and puts on light and thin spring clothes. Many people have once again put on their lips the inspirational sayings of "not losing weight in March, feeling sad in April, feeling sad in May, feeling sad in June...". However, as a "chubby girl" with a thin husband, Miss Sun, who lives in the east of the city, believes that in a romantic relationship, weight can be considered the most difficult topic to talk about. Due to weight issues, conflicts often erupt between my husband and me
Foreign research findings
Inconsistent weight levels and more conflicts
Recently, the Journal of Social and Personal Relations published a study in which researchers from Pok é e Bay University in Tacoma, Washington and the University of Arizona in Tucson, Arizona found that compared to couples with similar weight levels, partners with different weight levels - those who are overweight and those who are not - have more conflicts and disagreements with each other, Including arguments and emotions of anger and disgust.
It is reported that among the 43 heterosexual couples surveyed, the most conflicting partners were a combination of men with normal weight and overweight women. Among partners with different weight levels, frequent dining together can lead to more conflicts and conflicts.
The report states that when the overweight partner feels that their partner is supporting them in exercising and eating a healthy diet, there will be less conflict between couples.
How much conflict has' fat 'caused?
When it comes to weight, there are quite a few overweight people nowadays. Many people did not pay particular attention to conflicts between couples due to obesity. The reporter found in the interview that although there are many loving couples, in fact, compared to couples with similar weight levels, couples with different weight levels often have more conflicts due to their weight. The tolerance of a "thin wife" towards a "fat husband" is much more tolerant than that of a "thin husband" towards a "fat wife".
Not willing to go to the seaside to play
Just because my wife is too fat and wearing a swimsuit is unsightly
Miss Sun's weight has been soaring since she became pregnant and gave birth. After pregnancy, she became a full-time wife. Although it was tiring to take care of the children, she would eat, sleep, and wear pajamas at home every day. Her clothes were spacious, and when Miss Sun suddenly realized that she seemed to be very fat, her weight was completely out of her control and she could no longer go back. Before I got married, I only weighed 110 pounds. At that time, my husband weighed 125 pounds. Now, my weight is 165 pounds, while my husband weighs 140 pounds. Our weights are completely inverted, not in the same level
When Miss Sun and her lover both realized this, the conflicts between them also increased. After my child started kindergarten, I was ready to go out to work, but there were no clothes left at home to wear. When I went out to buy clothes, my husband didn't want to accompany me. "Miss Sun said, and when I tried on clothes, my husband politely said at the beginning," You should change clothes. "After trying on more than a dozen sets, my husband's words became" What clothes should I buy so fat. From then on, Miss Sun was no longer willing to mention buying clothes in front of her lover. When going out for dinner, Miss Sun always likes to order some big meat dishes, but every time she orders one, her husband will knock around and say that eating these meat dishes again will make her fatter, and so on. Several times, she doesn't want to eat and just wants to go home.
Two days ago, Miss Sun proposed to go to the seaside in Rizhao while preparing for the Qingming Festival holiday. Going to the beach? Why are you wearing a swimsuit so fat? No, no! "Miss Sun said, and when she heard this sentence, she could only bear it. Ah, there are many things like this, and I listen to them every day, almost getting used to them. But being disliked by my husband so much, if you don't feel sad, it's also fake
