Post Date December, 02 2023
Every trauma is a maturity: learn to accept all unfairness!
No one will pay attention to your grievances, no one will pay attention to your helplessness. When everything has become a reality, learn to accept and accept all unfairness.
Can your accusations change someone's treachery? No! So accept it! It's all a lesson to learn.
When someone deceives you, can your disclosure overturn the truth of the deception? No! So accept it! It's because you're too valuable that someone else has the capital to deceive you.
Can your argument clear this malicious slander when someone says' three out of four 'behind their back? No! Then learn to accept it! It's all like the saliva of bored people flying around and polluting the environment.
When the person you love and the one you love both leave you, can you cry and cry in exchange for his figure? No! So accept it! Accept this cruel reality, life is like this: there are gatherings, separations, and separations.
Pain, suffering, deception, slander, love and non love are all just a process, a process of having the present and the future. What you expect is that tomorrow will be even better! isn't it? Will tomorrow be even better? Will you fulfill your promise tomorrow? I can only silently shed tears and patiently hope that tomorrow will be even better! it will be! Tomorrow will be even more beautiful.
Calm down and think about it. Actually, every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity:
Live one day and have one day's blessings, cherish them. When I cry and I don't have shoes on, I find someone without feet. So it's better to forgive others on your own than to let others forgive you. The world doesn't belong to you originally, so you don't need to abandon it. What you need to abandon is all persistence. Everything is for my own use, but not mine. Others can violate causality, others can harm us, beat us, and slander us. But we cannot hate others for this, why? We must maintain a complete nature and a pure heart.
Knowing you is purely accidental, but forgetting you is difficult. You have your life view, I have my life view, and I can not interfere with you, but I cannot let you go. As long as I can, I will influence you. If not, then I will accept my fate. If you are planning to get married, let me tell you a very important philosophical saying: you must endure and tolerate the shortcomings of each other. There is no absolute happiness and perfect marriage in the world, and happiness only comes from infinite tolerance and mutual respect.
My wealth is not because I have a lot, but because I ask for very little. Living in the applause of others is someone who cannot stand the test. Actually, it's not you that troubles me, but I use your words and actions to trouble myself. Thank God for what I have, thank God for what I don't have. Coming is accidental, leaving is inevitable. So you must, follow the same fate, never change, follow the same fate. Others are always right, and I am always wrong, which is less troublesome.
When I was foolish, I always wanted others to understand me. But when you wake up, it seems like you've grown wisdom again. It's better to work hard to understand yourself! There is no better way to deal with unchangeable facts than to accept fate. The reason why people suffer is to pursue the wrong things, and when to let go, there will be no worries. It's not so much someone else causing you pain, it's more like your own lack of cultivation. Fate is responsible for shuffling, but it is ourselves who play cards!
