Compared with women's psychology, men's psychology seems to play a greater role in marriage. In comparison, in terms of subversion and betrayal of marriage, the factors from men are much greater. The reasons are as follows:!
Psychological manifestations of men's cheating:
The first is that men will become more and more mature as they grow older, and this kind of mature beauty is easily favored by young women. However, women will lose their looks after years of polishing; Moreover, the woman's family responsibilities are heavier, and she should be busy with housework and take care of her children, while the man's leisure time should be more; Men tend to like new things in the reception field, while women are more nostalgic.
The second is that men have more opportunities to achieve great and small success in the official market, literary market and other vanity fairs, which has naturally become an important code for men to be proud in love. These are easy to see.
The third and most critical point is that the factors that are not easy to detect are: women have strong dependence on men, which makes them love their men more about marriage; Men are much less dependent on women and their families. They are less dependent and creative, and their emotions will wander out of marriage if they are not careful.
In fact, compared with these practical factors, I would like to say whether there are genetic reasons for these phenomena? To put it further, as early as apes, every male ape had its own group of female apes. They got it by fighting. Whoever grows up has the right to inherit the family. This is the principle of the superior and the inferior in nature.
Humans first evolved from apes. Although this inheritance is too far away, it may not be completely extinct. In addition, after the formation of human beings, for hundreds of thousands of years, especially thousands of years, most of them have performed polygamy. Men's thinking is to love if they can, and women's thinking is to marry the chicken and follow the chicken. These ideas form some kind of inferiority, which is concentrated in the genetic code and passed on from generation to generation. From this point of view, it is necessary to make great efforts to transform men's non-professionality and love.
Does he stare at other people every time he sees a beautiful girl, completely neglecting your existence? At this time, you should slap him hard and then turn around and leave; Or give him a break, let's not do it again? All men will be moved by beauty. After all, everyone loves beautiful things. However, there should be a limit to viewing. Even if his reasons are more grandiose, how to explain his "uncontrollable excitement" sweetly can not exceed the limit, causing a shadow in your and his heart.
In order to obtain a happy marriage and family, it seems to be very beneficial to maintain the love psychology. In addition, it is necessary to fully understand the man's psychology, so as to solve the marriage problems caused by it, and the happiness index will rise sharply, understand the man's flirtatiousness, and overcome him.