Dr. Kinsey, a sex expert, conducted a survey in the 1950s targeting women under the age of 40, with 26% admitting to having had an affair. This proportion has been rising since then, and in some recent surveys, the proportion of men and women has been close to parity.
It is worth noting that in surveys on such sexual topics, men are more likely to brag and brag, while women are more likely to conceal and deny, which is a variable that needs to be considered simultaneously when viewing survey data.
A survey of 1000 married women conducted by the Japanese news website NewsPost7 showed that more than 20% of the respondents had experienced an affair. This number is also increasing year by year.
After getting married, what year did you start having an affair?
One "first year" 37.3%
Two "second year" 14.7%
3rd place "third year" 13.3%
4 places "fourth year" 6.7%
The remaining 28% are extramarital affairs that occur after the fifth year.
Experts analyze the reasons and believe that most people are dissatisfied with the new situation in their marriage after they get married. Some women will turn to their superiors, even friends, resulting in extramarital affairs. In this investigation, the reasons for the cheating of the respondents were also asked.
The number one thing on the list is "dissatisfaction with my husband."
The second is "unconsciously"
The third is "because I like it"
In the second option, most respondents unconsciously revealed problems in their own families while chatting or drinking with friends and superiors. This scenario includes: "When chatting, I find that the other person and I are from high school.", "When chatting with my boss, I find that I and my boss have the same worries.", "I just feel that the two people are getting along very well.", "I don't know how, I just like it.", and so on.
Expert analysis shows that many people still maintain a relationship with their pre marital lover after marriage. In another survey of 400 people, 15% of the respondents have been maintaining an affair from pre marriage to post marriage.
After detailed questioning of the interviewees, the reasons for the affair are as follows.
The husband is not talkative and always considers himself.
Put on a boring expression all day long and don't care about yourself.
A housewife is indecisive and indecisive.
Sexual life disorder, poor coordination between the two parties.
The first three reasons are not that important. Couples can communicate more and share their thoughts and concerns with each other, thereby understanding and caring for each other. Mainly the fourth reason, but I committed a major emotional taboo.
Sexual disorder is a word that men are most afraid of. Once men are diagnosed with sexual dysfunction, not only will they bring their own ashes, but also prone to family fission. The vast majority of men with sexual dysfunction are acquired, or the impact of disease, or psychological disorders, or into a misunderstanding, or serious or light.
According to the 2013 Asia Pacific Regional Sexual Behavior and Satisfaction Survey Report, one in three adult men suffers from varying degrees of sexual disorders. The total number of adult men in China is 460 million, which means that there are over 150 million patients with sexual disorders in China.
Sexual health issues are seriously affecting sexual satisfaction and harming gender relationships. In China, nearly 90% of couples or partners believe that sexual barriers have a negative impact on their relationships, with 30% of men and 40% of women refusing to have sex because of sexual barriers, and 21% of men and 22% of women experiencing premature ejaculation leading to emotional and marital breakdown.
Therefore, men must pay attention when encountering reproductive system diseases, especially when encountering sexual dysfunction, and need timely treatment to avoid treatment. Do not hide the condition because of face, nor take drugs blindly, to avoid delay and harm.