Losing love can be considered one of the most painful things in life. Falling in love with two people is undoubtedly happy, but once lost, it can also make people particularly difficult. Therefore, it is necessary for us to do something to salvage our lost love.
When facing a breakup, the first thing we need to pay attention to is the specific reason, before we can effectively consider remedies. Afterwards, don't honestly admit your mistake, but instead consider using a "desire to suppress" approach, first creating a false impression on the other party, and then surprising them.
It's like first telling the other party that the lottery ticket you bought was one digit wrong, so you missed 5 million, and then telling them that the other bet you bought actually won 10 million! This way, the effect can be doubled and it is easy to dominate people's emotions. Let's talk about specific cases and see what can be done to restore lost love.
Case: Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li have been in love for three years. Xiao Zhang was a prominent figure in school. After coming out to work, he was frequently appreciated by his boss due to his outstanding abilities, so he was promoted and promoted again. However, at the same time, Xiao Zhang has also become commonly known as the "overtime dog", almost devoting himself entirely to his work, naturally neglecting Xiao Li.
And Xiao Li has repeatedly reported this issue to Xiao Zhang, who always says "I will definitely make time to accompany you". But every time after three or five days, Xiao Li returns to his original form, and still can only work overtime at home for Xiao Zhang to come back. After several consecutive arguments and enduring them for several years, Xiao Li finally couldn't bear Xiao Zhang and proposed to break up. However, Xiao Zhang faced the accusation of his lover with a helpless expression.
Case analysis: As mentioned earlier, when facing a breakup, the first step is to analyze the reasons for the breakup. From the above analysis, we can also see that the biggest reason for the breakup is that Xiao Zhang's entrepreneurial spirit is too strong, neglecting love. Therefore, in order to save Xiao Li, Xiao Zhang should first set an example and give Xiao Li a subconscious message that "you are more important than work
But how can we give Xiao Li such a subconscious? Continue to 'guarantee'? This approach has clearly made Xiao Li feel disheartened and cold, and the resignation method is undoubtedly too rough. The best way is to be softer and more delicate.
Suggest inviting Xiao Li out for dinner first, and then telling the other party that the company plans to transfer oneself to study abroad for six months. Just as the other person was feeling down, the conversation turned again, saying that they had refused, and finally took the other person's hand, saying that after searching for so long, it was actually better to have you by your side than to work. I believe that through the previous "suppression of desire", women can definitely be greatly moved, and saving the other party is only a small case.
Of course, doing this alone is not enough, and we need to cooperate in doing some other things in the future. For example, control overtime hours and create small surprises for the other party, especially during holidays. Be sure to spend more time with the other party. After all, everyone is an adult and has to work. Xiao Li doesn't stick to Xiao Zhang all day long. As long as he handles holidays and weekends well, everyone can still be happy.
Saving love requires time and patience, rather than simply "manipulating" the other person. As long as you are willing to use sincerity and believe that as long as it is not a heart of stone, the other party will also be moved by the sincerity you show.
Finally, to summarize, I want to salvage the lost love. You need to learn the methods to save love, communicate with each other more, do a good job in communication, and understand and respect each other, in order to bring the person you love the most back to your embrace.